A Girl doesn’t Text Back – Use These Texts Instead Of leaving Her Alone

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Texting messages to get good responses from girls is fun if you know how to play your cards right. Just because a girl doesn't text back does not mean that she is not interested in you.

If you are interested in a girl and wish to get replies from her through text messages, there are ways to do this.

You do not have to send her boring messages telling her that you care for her and so on. Girls like to be pursued but not always for the right reasons.

Sometimes a girl may be piqued and reply to your messages for a short period. When you keep bombarding her with too many of them, she is likely to get bored and stop responding.

Here are a few tips you can use when a girl doesn't text back.

Tip #1. In order to get her to sit up and take notice, you could send her bold messages. For instance you can say “I guess you are busy so I will not trouble you.”

Any girl who reads this will heed the warning signs and realize that she has pushed you too far and may not get any more messages from you.

If she replies, you will know that she has been playing with you and waiting for you to make the move. She will probably tell you that she was really busy and did not mean to insult you by her silence.

Tip #2. Another good way of getting a response from a girl is to send a message that reads:

“You are incapable of sending me text messages. Why, my old aunt can send a text message quicker than you can!”

This is going to get a response for sure. She will want to prove that she can send messages when she wants to! Here is where you can take your cue and proceed!

Tip #3. Send her a message telling her:

“Oh boy! You know how to play hard to get! We have not started dating yet and yet we are moving too fast!” 

These are good ploys to use to get a quick response.

Girls feel that they should not respond immediately as they love to be courted. Men call them on the phone and talk for hours. She could get bored with too much conversation. Text messages are short, cute and fun.

They can be sent anytime in the day as there is no fear of disturbing her. She will read the messages when she is ready and ensure that her sleep is not sacrificed.

Things to avoid when texting a girl

  • Avoid sending her too many cute messages. This will make her stop reading your messages.
  • So not send lengthy verses as no one frankly has the time to read them
  • Wait awhile before you send her a message to increase her curiosity
  • Refrain from letting her know your life story
  • Stop complaining about work or someone
  • Wait a couple of hours before you respond to her message instead of replying instantly
  • Do not send her angry messages or threaten her

Use text messages with discretion. Be unique and send messages that make a girl appreciate your thinking of her.

She should be able to laugh out loud or pick up the phone and respond immediately. Remember girls react emotionally and once they decide you are the one, they will send you interesting text messages that send out the right feelers.

Wait for this and make sure you do not blow it by responding saucily. Once you follow the above tips you will not have a problem wondering how to react when a girl doesn't text back.

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Alex J. Stevenson is a relationship expert and a dating coach. He has been helping desperate men to improve their dating life for last couple of years.

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  1. Yes, nice tips, I appreciate them. Sometimes, that is the hardest thing. To start and keep an initial communication going. Especially if you are not a very outgoing person.
    I would also like to add that it is a good idea to never text her to much. Like you said, girls get bored easily, and if you try to hard it tends to fall apart on you. Better off making her sweat a little bit instead.

  2. I meet this girl and I asked for her number and she would text me quick and we were going to hang out but she she never texted back. I texter her and she saw my

  3. Ok guys- if we as women are interested we will respond! Guys have created this world as if a girl reaches out to the guy or if she responds to quickly then perhaps she is to “easy”. You have to admit, most guys like a challenge just as much as women do. We like to be WANTED! Make sure you make your point clear….don’t make her sit there and wonder what your intentions are so much that she just gives up. Making her sit and question everything about you is annoying. We are complicated creatures!
    If you like her….flirt with her…reach out and friend request or follow her on social media. Throw out the occasional “like” but don’t overdo it or she will think you are just a stalker. Liking her status or pic or instagram shows her you are paying attention to her! Let the door open a little bit. Don’t rush it! Hope some of this helps! And if you give her your number and she texts you….don’t leave her hanging text or call her!

  4. to be honest, if a girl doesn’t reply to you then normally you may not be her type and she doesn’t want to connect. I hate to say it but women are the gate keepers to relationships and sex.

  5. I followed the first tip above and she replied me “don’t say it like that”. What does that mean?

  6. Likely that she doesn’t want to lose your attention. I’d ask if she’s really worth the effort here.

  7. She said I love u last night but then today I get up for church and I send her Goodmorning. She reads it on Whatsapp but no response….then I said I’m leaving church she reads it no response? She lives in Jamaica…is it me?

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