Tag: BDSM

Why I hate 50 Shades of Grey: An Account on S&M Abuse

I own a copy of 50 shades of Grey…but I've proudly never read it. I know the arguments and I know the synopsis. Woman meets tortured soul who gives her great, if not strange sex and she apparently “changes” him....

/ November 19, 2015
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What is the Difference Between BDSM and Abuse?

First of all, while I come not to praise Fifty Shades of Grey, neither do I come to bury it. The bashing and dissecting of its prose style and its depictions of D/s relationships have already been done, sometimes to...

/ February 27, 2015
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50 Shades of Are You Fucking Kidding Me?

If you follow the Urban Dater on Twitter, you already know that I went to see Fifty Shades of Grey this last weekend (after downing three drinks in quick succession at the nearby Applebee's, naturally). The dear, dashing Bastard Keith did the...

/ February 19, 2015