How to Spot An Orbiter (And What to Do About It)
Orbiter: the guy who cycles in and out of your life, usually for a need (physical, emotional, or mental), attention, or an ego boost. He gets his fill and then departs until he returns to ‘orbit.’ The preceding formal definition...
I’m Not Quite Sure How To Accept Your Love Yet
You meet him by accident — in a smoke-filled bar in the middle of town that your friend dragged you to. She is a mutual friend and introduces you two somewhere at the beginning of the night, but you are...
Holiday Dating: Stranded in Clarksdale.
I went to Clarksdale, Mississippi to check out the music scene. I’ve traveled alone in the US and used dating apps to meet locals before, so I tried my luck there. I made plans with a match to come and...
Don’t Know How To Get Started in Online Dating? Here’re Some Top Message Tips and Examples
These days, you’d be hard pushed to find someone under 40 who hasn’t used a dating website or app at some point in their lives. In the digital age, where many aspects of our lives are moving online, it was...
9 Reasons There May Not Be A Second Date
Congratulations! You finally got up the nerve to go on a date with that guy/girl you've been messaging for weeks. But what about the second date? Not happening? Certainly, getting to the second date has a lot to do with...
Why You Should Let Hip-Hop Get You Over Heartache.
“Sometimes a little ice cream helps when you are down in the dumps… But you know what? Music is a mood changer. If I am sad and I listen to something sad, a love song or whatever, I am going...
What to Say to a Girl You Just Met
The first words you say to a girl you have just met determine whether she will dismiss you as a creep, friend zone you, or consider being your girlfriend. Many guys are utterly clueless about what to say to a...
5 Barriers that are Ruining your Sex Life and how to Get over Them
If you are married, no doubt you want to have an amazing sex life with your partner. You want to, but it just doesn't seem to be happening. You've been getting along great, you feel loved and supported in your...