How to Spot An Orbiter (And What to Do About It)

Orbiter: the guy who cycles in and out of your life, usually for a need (physical, emotional, or mental), attention, or an ego boost. He gets his fill and then departs until he returns to ‘orbit.’ The preceding formal definition...

/ January 22, 2019

I’m Not Quite Sure How To Accept Your Love Yet

You meet him by accident — in a smoke-filled bar in the middle of town that your friend dragged you to. She is a mutual friend and introduces you two somewhere at the beginning of the night, but you are...

/ January 15, 2019

Holiday Dating: Stranded in Clarksdale.

I went to Clarksdale, Mississippi to check out the music scene. I’ve traveled alone in the US and used dating apps to meet locals before, so I tried my luck there. I made plans with a match to come and...

/ January 10, 2019

Don’t Know How To Get Started in Online Dating? Here’re Some Top Message Tips and Examples

These days, you’d be hard pushed to find someone under 40 who hasn’t used a dating website or app at some point in their lives. In the digital age, where many aspects of our lives are moving online, it was...

/ January 8, 2019

9 Reasons There May Not Be A Second Date

Congratulations! You finally got up the nerve to go on a date with that guy/girl you've been messaging for weeks. But what about the second date? Not happening? Certainly, getting to the second date has a lot to do with...

/ January 3, 2019

Why You Should Let Hip-Hop Get You Over Heartache.

“Sometimes a little ice cream helps when you are down in the dumps… But you know what? Music is a mood changer. If I am sad and I listen to something sad, a love song or whatever, I am going...

/ December 31, 2018

What to Say to a Girl You Just Met

The first words you say to a girl you have just met determine whether she will dismiss you as a creep, friend zone you, or consider being your girlfriend. Many guys are utterly clueless about what to say to a...

/ December 20, 2018

5 Barriers that are Ruining your Sex Life and how to Get over Them

If you are married, no doubt you want to have an amazing sex life with your partner. You want to, but it just doesn't seem to be happening. You've been getting along great, you feel loved and supported in your...

/ December 18, 2018