What NOT to Message a Girl Online
Should you or should you not send that message? If you have to ask then read this! Technology has made our lives easier and with respect to meeting people for a date, it's been a boon in some ways while...
How I Got My Sexy Back After Sexual Assault
Twenty years ago, in the back of an old Ford Bronco, I finally got my sexy back. Let me explain here since you're wondering how I lost it in the first place. As a survivor of child sexual abuse, sex...
The 3 Mistakes That Will Destroy Your Online Dating Success
When I first signed up for online dating over a decade ago, I failed miserably. In fact, I practically made failing an art form. The constant rejection and lack of acknowledgment led me to believe that something was personally wrong...
What If You’re an Introvert Dating Another Introvert?
When you go searching for dating advice online, you'll probably notice that the majority of the resources are geared toward introvert/extrovert relationships. Yes, I know that opposites attract, been there, done that. But when I was in a relationship with...
You don’t give a sh*t about dating when you keep sex going in your life
Like rent, healthcare and cooking, there are many things in life that you have to start managing when you turn 25, like admitting the fact that there is no algorithm for dating. You may have friends that already have a...
Falling Out of Love Feels Good
It’s funny. Ironic. How things pan out. Questions spiral in your mind. And the thoughts. The feelings. They crash into you and then they flee. Ghosts. Fragments. Pieces of what was. Pieces of what could never longer be. I’m talking about...
10 Reasons Why Sex in Your Thirties is Better Than You Think
Sex in your thirties is like going to the dentist: before getting there, you worry about suffering… but when you come out you’re all giggles. Does anyone actually like getting older? There are things in life that can get really...
A Dating Story About Ugly Men’s Shoes.
I'll begin with a question for you, dear readers: What do you do when: You have a pretty decent date who is wearing a custom suit and looks pretty legit, but then you notice he's dressed in these shoes and you feel...