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the Urban Dater is a blog that covers the topics of dating, sex, relationships, and love. It's a place to chronicle all the discussions on the stomach butterflies, the heartache, the confusion, and the joy that comes with romance, and place them in one space for all to read.

the Urban Dater is about featuring real stories and real life experiences, and in the process, hopefully imparting some wisdom to the Urban Dater's many readers.

Who/What is the Urban Dater and How Did it Get Started?

the Urban Dater was started by Alex Vasquez. He talked a lot about dating and began writing a lot about dating. His early works, he admits, are hot garbage. Although he writes far less these days, he maintains this space so that others can freely share their musings on love and all the things it touches.

Over the years the Urban Dater has taken on a life of its own and it's been interesting to see it morph over the years from a single author blog to a community with a couple hundred over three hundred contributors. the Urban Dater has become a well-read and highly visited site that provides information, education and inappropriate humor (and we like it that way).

What Else Do We Do?

In addition to our regular blog posts, we also take questions from our readers. We also offer other bloggers the ability to promote themselves and their projects with Guest Posting Opportunities. For advertisers, the Urban Dater is a content-rich platform with new content on a daily basis. We offer a variety of opportunities, from sponsored posts, text links, banner ads and more.

A small army of contributors keeps the content current and modern as well. Maybe you'd like to contribute a piece? You can do that here.