Category: Dating & Relationships

the Urban Dater often examines the intricacies of dating and relationships. Dating is hard enough and then relationships often cast another layer of difficulty into the mix. Hopefully, the stories our contributors share will help you in your own relationships or dating experiences.

8 Things Guys Prefer To Lie About On Their Dating Profiles

What can a profile tell you about the guy on a dating site? Is he ready for a committed relationship, does he have unhealthy habits, is he reliable at all? – you can find answers to these questions by reading...

/ July 18, 2019

Are you Dating an Undercover Fuckboy?

How I was dating an undercover Fuckboy. These fuckboys or now known as city boys are truly masters of disguises. They come off seeming to have good intentions and being sweet. They put on the “great catch” costume and lead...

/ July 16, 2019

4 Ways Your Smartphone Is Ruining Your Relationship and 4 Things You Can Do About It

Your smart phone goes everywhere with you. It's in your back pocket, purse, and some women even resort to carrying them in their bras. This handy invention is great for grabbing directions, keeping in touch with family members, and taking...

/ July 11, 2019

Insecure

Attention insecure married women or women in relationships! I’m so sorry. I’m sorry your man has made you feel like every single woman is a threat! I’m sorry on behalf of single women that some women don't care that men...

/ June 6, 2019

10 Dating Tips from a Former Bartender

Bartenders are like the unseen, untapped, unheard fountain of wisdom. We don’t even realize they’re often present during our most painful moments and our most celebratory ones. This makes bartenders privy to the general public’s most vulnerable activities – including...

/ June 4, 2019

My Firsthand Experience Sugar Dating and Why I’m Disgusted

It all started one day when I was scrolling through YouTube videos at home. Serendipity, I suppose, led me to a video that billed itself as the most successful sugar dating website. In the video, a man revels in the...

/ May 14, 2019

Five Brutally Honest Observations from a European About Dating in the US

It’s been two years since I’ve visited the US. I went to New York City for four days. Boy was that an experience. I live in Moscow, Russia permanently (although I’m German). The dating scene here is similar because fundamental...

/ April 23, 2019

10 Reasons Why Guys Stop Texting for a Few Days and Leave Us Wondering?

You've been messaging this person you genuinely like, and however arbitrarily, the discussion ends. Did he overlook your messages? Why do folks quit messaging for a couple of days? You've been messaging this person you genuinely like, and however arbitrarily,...

/ April 18, 2019