Category: Dating & Relationships

the Urban Dater often examines the intricacies of dating and relationships. Dating is hard enough and then relationships often cast another layer of difficulty into the mix. Hopefully, the stories our contributors share will help you in your own relationships or dating experiences.

How to Lose the Wrong Guy… Without Losing You!

Renee Medema recently authored a book titled “How to Lose the Wrong Guy… Without Losing You.” The book begins with stories of negative relationships, including her own, and progresses into advice on how to better vet guys, including the importance...

/ May 22, 2018

3’s a Crowd: How to Play The Field

Have you ever thought of dating multiple men at once? Asking yourself how many? The answer is 3. And here’s why. Delfino writes an interesting article on XOJane.com about how to play the field. https://www.xojane.com/relationships/how-to-be-in-charge-of-your-heart-a-pair-and-a-spare-method She introduces the “Pair-and-a-spare-method,” which...

/ May 14, 2018
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Online Affairs

Reader’s Question: My husband and I have been married for seven years. We have two children and both work full-time. We are in our early 40’s. He has been “seeing” someone online. I caught him masturbating with her through an...

/ May 9, 2018

Does He Like Me? 11 Harsh but Honest Signs That You Are the Rule (Not the Exception)

If you decided to date someone in the longer term, it's easy to get caught up in what will be rather than accessing what's happening in the present. People can be inclined to jump on ship on something that might...

/ May 2, 2018

How Can a Breakup Empower You

Few events in life can be as earth-shattering as a bad breakup. While some lucky people seem to have their soulmate dropped conveniently into their lap about the time that hormones start flying, most of us will go through at...

/ April 30, 2018

12 Dating Resolutions to Make for the New Year

The anticipation of a New Year can be both exciting and unnerving. The New Year means mean new worries, new loves, and new desires. You can feel the apprehension…Here are 12 empowering resolutions to relieve that feeling and take the...

/ January 12, 2018

Tips For Online Dating Success This Holiday Season

As the cold winter months get closer, if you're single, you'll no doubt want someone to snuggle up and get warm with. There’s a reason behind that: it’s “cuffing season.” Introduced to Urban Dictionary in 2011, it’s the time during...

/ December 15, 2017

The Truth About Dating Models And Strippers

If the title of the article interests you, it's likely you do well with women up to a certain level. Maybe the women in your social circle think you're funny and interesting. Perhaps you occasionally hook up with a few...

/ November 17, 2017