Category: Dating & Relationships

the Urban Dater often examines the intricacies of dating and relationships. Dating is hard enough and then relationships often cast another layer of difficulty into the mix. Hopefully, the stories our contributors share will help you in your own relationships or dating experiences.

The Math of Love: How Online Dating Platforms Use Data to Find Your Perfect Match

In today’s tech-driven era ‘love at first sight’ seems to have become more like ‘love at first swipe.’ The rise of services like online dating has not just revolutionized the concept of dating but also given people more technologically advanced...

/ August 27, 2019

10 Phrases to get your man to listen to you (and love you for it).

Men tend to be more attracted to women who they perceive to communicate their needs clearly and concisely. Men are very direct in the way they communicate. Have you ever heard the phrase, “It’s not what you say but how...

/ August 13, 2019
Tips for Resolving a Conjugal Crisis

10 Key Tips for Resolving a Conjugal Crisis

You feel that you are missing something or you have feelings for someone else. You annoy each other all the time, you argue for nothing, or you do not understand yourself at all. These are signs that you are going...

/ August 1, 2019

8 Things Guys Prefer To Lie About On Their Dating Profiles

What can a profile tell you about the guy on a dating site? Is he ready for a committed relationship, does he have unhealthy habits, is he reliable at all? – you can find answers to these questions by reading...

/ July 18, 2019

Are you Dating an Undercover Fuckboy?

How I was dating an undercover Fuckboy. These fuckboys or now known as city boys are truly masters of disguises. They come off seeming to have good intentions and being sweet. They put on the “great catch” costume and lead...

/ July 16, 2019

4 Ways Your Smartphone Is Ruining Your Relationship and 4 Things You Can Do About It

Your smart phone goes everywhere with you. It's in your back pocket, purse, and some women even resort to carrying them in their bras. This handy invention is great for grabbing directions, keeping in touch with family members, and taking...

/ July 11, 2019

Insecure

Attention insecure married women or women in relationships! I’m so sorry. I’m sorry your man has made you feel like every single woman is a threat! I’m sorry on behalf of single women that some women don't care that men...

/ June 6, 2019

10 Dating Tips from a Former Bartender

Bartenders are like the unseen, untapped, unheard fountain of wisdom. We don’t even realize they’re often present during our most painful moments and our most celebratory ones. This makes bartenders privy to the general public’s most vulnerable activities – including...

/ June 4, 2019