Category: Opinion

The Art of Rebounding: Warm-ups, Skills, and Moves.

Like any sport, rebounding requires warm-ups, skills, and moves. Here I will highlight one example of a routine with the wins, mishaps, and the machinery involved. Intro Understand the basic terminology: Merriam Webster- to spring back on or as if...

/ February 23, 2017

Paris – Exploring the City of Love and Romance

I don't get envious often, but when I see my friends traveling to places like Paris aka “the City of Love” it gets my goat. Why? Because Paris is romantic, it's exciting, and creative; Paris is neat and it is...

/ February 11, 2017

The End of Brangelina – Is it Wrong to Laugh at the Other Women’s Misery?

So just last week we saw the demise of yet another Hollywood couple, Brangelina. Divorce doesn't come as much of a shock these days. It seems that in actual fact we aren't all that interested in what went down between...

/ October 25, 2016

Save An Optimist, Give Honesty A Try

Image Credit sketchport.com One of the worst parts about online dating, or dating at all for that matter, is sifting through the pile of lies and misrepresentations you are handed by each potential new mate. Honesty seems to be an...

/ December 18, 2015
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The Girl Fight

not too long ago, i was embroiled in an emotional entanglement with a no good person who made it past my filters during a vulnerable time. i won’t pretend it was all his fault: i let him in. once he...

/ July 26, 2015

3 Reasons Not To Meet Women In Bars

When I ask where people met their current lover, rarely do they answer “in bars”. Yet many people go out at night looking to meet women in bars. Loud music, social lubricant, and a plethora of attractive people to choose from...

/ January 19, 2015
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Your Bullshit Shall Not Pass (and a Happy New Year!)

Happy New Year from the Urban Dater! Another year has gone by–oh boy! I can hardly believe it’s 2015. Holy shit, dudes. I hate to be the bearer of bad (and obvious) news, but we’re all getting older (my little...

/ January 13, 2015

8 Signs You’re Dating A Woman, Not A Girl

Lets face it…most of the women you'll meet in a lifetime are going to be incompetent. The majority will be immature little girls with a small percentage of women. Does age matter? Sometimes yes and no. Why? Because the female's...

/ November 6, 2014