Category: Dates & Details

This is where you can find the details of my sordid dating career. Yes, I’m kissing and telling, but we’re cool like that.

The Math of Love: How Online Dating Platforms Use Data to Find Your Perfect Match

In today’s tech-driven era ‘love at first sight’ seems to have become more like ‘love at first swipe.’ The rise of services like online dating has not just revolutionized the concept of dating but also given people more technologically advanced...

/ August 27, 2019

Are you Dating an Undercover Fuckboy?

How I was dating an undercover Fuckboy. These fuckboys or now known as city boys are truly masters of disguises. They come off seeming to have good intentions and being sweet. They put on the “great catch” costume and lead...

/ July 16, 2019

10 Reasons Why Guys Stop Texting for a Few Days and Leave Us Wondering?

You've been messaging this person you genuinely like, and however arbitrarily, the discussion ends. Did he overlook your messages? Why do folks quit messaging for a couple of days? You've been messaging this person you genuinely like, and however arbitrarily,...

/ April 18, 2019

3’s a Crowd: How to Play The Field

Have you ever thought of dating multiple men at once? Asking yourself how many? The answer is 3. And here’s why. Delfino writes an interesting article on XOJane.com about how to play the field. https://www.xojane.com/relationships/how-to-be-in-charge-of-your-heart-a-pair-and-a-spare-method She introduces the “Pair-and-a-spare-method,” which...

/ May 14, 2018

5 Ways to Amp Up Your Texting Game

In today’s day and age, besides verbal and physical interaction, flirting substantially comes down to…texting. Not as well-versed as a letter. Not as natural as a phone call. But acts a huge component to how we carry and portray ourselves....

/ November 7, 2017

10 First-date Hacks That’ll Save You

I believe in first-dates. I go on a ton of them. The pure potential, openness, novelty, and spontaneity of a first-date are all highly appealing. The second date, however, is on an entirely different level. Here are overall ten tips...

/ June 20, 2017

A Dating Story About Ugly Men’s Shoes.

I'll begin with a question for you, dear readers: What do you do when: You have a pretty decent date who is wearing a custom suit and looks pretty legit, but then you notice he's dressed in these shoes and you feel...

/ April 3, 2017
glamping

Turn Date Night into a Glampout

A few years ago, my wife (then-girlfriend) Alex and I were invited, by her friend, to go camping. Being city slickers, neither of us had much experience camping, but we ran out to Wal-Mart to get supplies. Knives, a tent, camping...

/ June 2, 2016