Category: Self
Did I Waste My Time?
The first thing I said to my Tinder date, L, was “You’re probably wondering why I called you here today.” I shouted as I tried to elevate them above the dull roar of the Dodgers faithful at the Verdugo Bar,...
When Your Rebound Uses You
Say what?… When your rebound uses you. Let that sink in for a moment. I’ve been burning to write a piece about this. The reality is human nature can sure be incredibly fickle. And with fickleness, comes both the sharp...
7 Things I’ve Learned from Becoming a Serial Dater
Since I began dating at the age of fifteen, I’ve pretty much always been monogamous and only focused on one person at a time. Then, typically what would happen is I would become attached to this one person, not in...
22 Reasons You Don’t Have to Be With the One
When it comes down to it, you just have to truly understand what you’re looking for. And you don’t have to conjure a checklist or an elaborate situation. Approach it with wanting everything good but the “One.” Let the “One”...
Does He Like Me? 11 Harsh but Honest Signs That You Are the Rule (Not the Exception)
If you decided to date someone in the longer term, it's easy to get caught up in what will be rather than accessing what's happening in the present. People can be inclined to jump on ship on something that might...
12 Dating Resolutions to Make for the New Year
The anticipation of a New Year can be both exciting and unnerving. The New Year means mean new worries, new loves, and new desires. You can feel the apprehension…Here are 12 empowering resolutions to relieve that feeling and take the...
Wrong Person, Right Time
The old adage usually says that we find the right person at the wrong time. But it’s the exact opposite. We are projecting our desires of a fantasy (what we think is right but actually wrong) at a certain idle time....
10 First-date Hacks That’ll Save You
I believe in first-dates. I go on a ton of them. The pure potential, openness, novelty, and spontaneity of a first-date are all highly appealing. The second date, however, is on an entirely different level. Here are overall ten tips...