Category: Self

The Loophole in Long Distance Dating

Long distance relationships carry a bad rep for multiple reasons: the longing, the pain of being apart, the effort, the tests of trust and bonds, the investment, and essentially the lack of all physical, existential interaction. Ever thought of long-distance...

/ November 12, 2019

Not a Math. Not Science. Love’s Art.

I've long speculated on the definition of love and its paradigm. What's the ‘subject' of this subject on love? How would you answer that? Here's my simple answer: Numbers Game It is projected that a woman is supposed to meet...

/ September 24, 2019

You Need to Be Rejected (6 Reasons Why)

Rejection stings. And depending on the burn level, it can be a quick pang or a lingering pain that doesn’t seem to go away. It may not be what you want, but sometimes, it’s just what you need. Welcome it....

/ September 5, 2019

The Ethics of Ghosting

P1: You’re still interested in a person and continue to communicate with them. P2: The other party is no longer communicating. P3: The other party is no longer interested. C: You just got ghosted Ghosting is an infamous, colloquial, and...

/ July 9, 2019

10 Fulfilling Things You Can Do, Single

If you don’t remember the last time you weren’t in a relationship, casually dating, or in an infatuation-ship, this list is for you. Raised in a world, where marriage and partnership is the norm, how is a singleton suppose to...

/ May 7, 2019

10 Reasons Why Guys Stop Texting for a Few Days and Leave Us Wondering?

You've been messaging this person you genuinely like, and however arbitrarily, the discussion ends. Did he overlook your messages? Why do folks quit messaging for a couple of days? You've been messaging this person you genuinely like, and however arbitrarily,...

/ April 18, 2019

Did I Waste My Time?

The first thing I said to my Tinder date, L, was “You’re probably wondering why I called you here today.” I shouted as I tried to elevate them above the dull roar of the Dodgers faithful at the Verdugo Bar,...

/ March 14, 2019

When Your Rebound Uses You

Say what?… When your rebound uses you. Let that sink in for a moment. I’ve been burning to write a piece about this. The reality is human nature can sure be incredibly fickle. And with fickleness, comes both the sharp...

/ October 2, 2018