Category: Self

You Broke Up with Someone Great

You broke up with someone great. Moving on isn’t about being enraptured by any intense emotion. It isn’t being petty. It isn’t being vindictive. Not yearning, nostalgic, or even joyful. It’s…calm…and content. Think about it. Saying “I broke up with...

/ August 31, 2020

The Neuroscience of Moving On

Dr. Fisher and numerous anthropologists, psychologists, and neurologists alike all agree that love “on the brain,” exists. MRI scans support that the same areas of the brain that light up when experiencing highs from drugs, light up when you’re in...

/ May 21, 2020

Love & Corona: What Will Happen?

There’s nothing like a pandemic to stir up your dating life. The virus has upended the economy, public health systems, and politics of nearly every country in the world. Some more than others. People’s social lives, livelihoods, and personal lives...

/ April 22, 2020

Attention Isn’t the Same as Intention

Dating bloggers read other dating blogs. And dating gurus watch other dating gurus. One Holy Grail of a dating guru man is Matthew Hussey. His advice is both cathartic and chilling. Direct but compassionate. He described something so eye-opening: “Attention...

/ February 18, 2020
single on valentine's day

How to Enjoy Valentine’s Day If You’re Single

Valentine’s Day is meant to celebrate love but for those that are single it can bring about many different emotions. It can be hard to treat February 14th the same as any other day, especially because everywhere you look something...

/ February 10, 2020

The Loophole in Long Distance Dating

Long distance relationships carry a bad rep for multiple reasons: the longing, the pain of being apart, the effort, the tests of trust and bonds, the investment, and essentially the lack of all physical, existential interaction. Ever thought of long-distance...

/ November 12, 2019

Not a Math. Not Science. Love’s Art.

I've long speculated on the definition of love and its paradigm. What's the ‘subject' of this subject on love? How would you answer that? Here's my simple answer: Numbers Game It is projected that a woman is supposed to meet...

/ September 24, 2019

You Need to Be Rejected (6 Reasons Why)

Rejection stings. And depending on the burn level, it can be a quick pang or a lingering pain that doesn’t seem to go away. It may not be what you want, but sometimes, it’s just what you need. Welcome it....

/ September 5, 2019