Magnets
Because sometimes things just attract… A person or thing that has a powerful attraction. I attended a funeral for a friend's mother today; I was with mutual friends showing our support during our buddy's time of need. During the ceremony,...
The Young Man’s Guide to Looking Smart
I remember my first corporate job interview. I showed up wearing khakis and a button down shirt. I sat across from a gentleman wearing a suit; he looked suave like he had important things to do. I recall thinking that there...
Ask the Urban Dater: I Want My Girlfriend to Have Sex With Someone Else
Hi I'm 28 years old I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. We have a great sex life I do however fantasize about her and other men. I don't want to see her have sex with them, I...
Dating Along Party Lines: A Brutal Study of Politics and Dating
Binary Politics and Dating Suck — OH at Starbucks I've swiped profiles that read “swipe left if you voted for Trump.” Heck, I even saw one that said: “swipe right if you voted for Harambe.” Fucking Harambe, the poor gorilla gunned...
Modern Courtship is Destroying Everything
Science says: Dating is hard!!! (Surprising no one at all) Tell me if this sounds familiar: You go out with someone, and you have a lovely time; there's a connection, and you want to see where this rabbit hole leads....
Putting Your Best Face Forward
In case you haven't read it elsewhere I'll do you a solid and repeat it here: Online Dating is fluid and is always changing. And the scene has shifted in a way that lends itself to instant gratification. You know...
Why You Should Date an Older Woman
I've never been one to go after women who are younger than me. The number doesn't bother me; the maturity level does have an impact, though. Usually then women I date are around my age and younger by a few...
I Believe…
I'm Alex and this is what I believe… I believe that you are what you eat. Therefore I am a pussy. I believe that the sub-mariner stylings of Dan Quisenberry were brilliantly weird. I believe that people know within a few seconds...