Category: Self

male dating privilege

Male Privilege in Dating

Male privilege is a term for social, economic, and political advantages or rights that are made available to men solely on the basis of their sex. A man's access to these benefits may also depend on other characteristics such as...

/ January 12, 2016
Man Magnet

Mediocre to Man Magnet in Fifteen Minutes

I know I won’t be telling you anything new when I say that there is not a heterosexual woman out there who doesn’t want to be desirable to the opposite sex. Women, whether they admit it or not, love to be desired...

/ January 7, 2016

Sorry, But You Attract What You Are

Yes, YOU. The only common thing in each and every single one of your relationships is YOU. There are a lot of theories attempting to understand the dynamics of love, and many offer compelling ideas about why we choose one...

/ December 31, 2015
love at first sight

Love After First Sight

I met you at 6pm on the corner of the road, the lights from the supermarket was flickering and a homeless man was playing a jazz song through his radio. It was a Thursday night and it just happened to...

/ October 29, 2015
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The Girl Fight

not too long ago, i was embroiled in an emotional entanglement with a no good person who made it past my filters during a vulnerable time. i won’t pretend it was all his fault: i let him in. once he...

/ July 26, 2015
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How to Get Over Breakup Blues

Many of us have suffered a breakup at least once when we were in our teens. Falling in love is the easiest thing to do when one is young and carefree. It is also fashionable to be in a relationship,...

/ March 19, 2015
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Your Greatest Love Affair is with Yourself

My mother always warned me about never loving too hard. She would tell me to always remember my own name. You can love someone, but you can never love someone too fiercely…because what will happen when they leave the room?...

/ March 17, 2015

The 5 Biggest Mistakes Singles in Their Twenties Make

The twenties are a great time in just about anybody's life. The twenties are a decade where the world is full of hope, opportunity, and best of all, great potential for finding love. Unfortunately, love is also the department where men...

/ November 28, 2014