Category: Self

love at first sight

Love After First Sight

I met you at 6pm on the corner of the road, the lights from the supermarket was flickering and a homeless man was playing a jazz song through his radio. It was a Thursday night and it just happened to...

/ October 29, 2015
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The Girl Fight

not too long ago, i was embroiled in an emotional entanglement with a no good person who made it past my filters during a vulnerable time. i won’t pretend it was all his fault: i let him in. once he...

/ July 26, 2015
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How to Get Over Breakup Blues

Many of us have suffered a breakup at least once when we were in our teens. Falling in love is the easiest thing to do when one is young and carefree. It is also fashionable to be in a relationship,...

/ March 19, 2015
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Your Greatest Love Affair is with Yourself

My mother always warned me about never loving too hard. She would tell me to always remember my own name. You can love someone, but you can never love someone too fiercely…because what will happen when they leave the room?...

/ March 17, 2015

The 5 Biggest Mistakes Singles in Their Twenties Make

The twenties are a great time in just about anybody's life. The twenties are a decade where the world is full of hope, opportunity, and best of all, great potential for finding love. Unfortunately, love is also the department where men...

/ November 28, 2014

The Day We Stopped Being “Friends”

I'm not sure when it happened. Was it Tuesday? Maybe a week ago, or a random Sunday morning, as you curled up on the couch, with your laptop. Whatever the day, you made a conscious effort to remove me as...

/ October 22, 2014

Perspective is Everything.

My friends were there laughing. I'd just told them how I'd had a threesome with a cute woman and her chihuahua (not really, but the chihuahua really makes for a good punchline) and they were rolling. “Really!!?” they asked.  I...

/ August 7, 2014

Exposure in the Land of Romance

Yet, every time I do this, I feel empty. Even with someone who, like I said, is perfectly fine. I could really like them. I could see how someone would love them and maybe sometimes I think I could see...

/ May 27, 2014