Category: Self

i believe

I Believe…

I'm Alex and this is what I believe… I believe that you are what you eat. Therefore I am a pussy. I believe that the sub-mariner stylings of Dan Quisenberry were brilliantly weird. I believe that people know within a few seconds...

/ July 13, 2016
die alone

What if I Die Alone?

Unless your end comes in the form of being with a lot of living people who all suddenly die at the same time, or within several hours of your death, you are going to die alone. Let's get that out...

/ June 28, 2016

Saving it up for the ring, Doesn’t guarantee a thing

Dating is a crazy complicated game, that not even the savviest of daters completely understand. And when you add the lifestyle of celibacy into the equation, it can become even more convoluted. However, the benefits outweigh the complications and the...

/ April 20, 2016
male dating privilege

Male Privilege in Dating

Male privilege is a term for social, economic, and political advantages or rights that are made available to men solely on the basis of their sex. A man's access to these benefits may also depend on other characteristics such as...

/ January 12, 2016
Man Magnet

Mediocre to Man Magnet in Fifteen Minutes

I know I won’t be telling you anything new when I say that there is not a heterosexual woman out there who doesn’t want to be desirable to the opposite sex. Women, whether they admit it or not, love to be desired...

/ January 7, 2016

Sorry, But You Attract What You Are

Yes, YOU. The only common thing in each and every single one of your relationships is YOU. There are a lot of theories attempting to understand the dynamics of love, and many offer compelling ideas about why we choose one...

/ December 31, 2015
love at first sight

Love After First Sight

I met you at 6pm on the corner of the road, the lights from the supermarket was flickering and a homeless man was playing a jazz song through his radio. It was a Thursday night and it just happened to...

/ October 29, 2015
female competition, my boyfriend likes someone else, the other woman, woman on woman competition, relationships, dating,

The Girl Fight

not too long ago, i was embroiled in an emotional entanglement with a no good person who made it past my filters during a vulnerable time. i won’t pretend it was all his fault: i let him in. once he...

/ July 26, 2015