All posts by Sarah Suhaimi

Sarah Suhaimi practices 명음 by day and the art of dark chocolate bar swindling by night. She is currently working closely with a local Pittsburgh non-profit that serves sex-trafficked victims, Living in Liberty, as a volunteer and grant proposal writer. She founded the Southeast Asian Student Alliance (SEASA) at her university, and, as well, the "Offer Islam Campaign." Her works vary from prose to poetry to articles. Her published works include, ‘The Home of an Immigrant’s Daughter’ in the Art Catalogue for the 2012 Dublin Biennial, Dublin, Ireland and ‘Hidden Beauty Reveals Itself (Intellect Vs Instinct)’ in the Art Catalogue for the 2011 Florence Biennale VIII, Florence, Italy.

The Ethics of Ghosting

P1: You’re still interested in a person and continue to communicate with them. P2: The other party is no longer communicating. P3: The other party is no longer interested. C: You just got ghosted Ghosting is an infamous, colloquial, and...

/ July 9, 2019

How to Land a DATE with a F-Boy

This is part sarcastic, part application, and part true; Take what resonates with you. Laugh about it or live it! They are crawling over Tinder. With 3 out of 4 their pics displaying their bed. Or gorgeous bod. Or eyes....

/ June 13, 2019

10 Fulfilling Things You Can Do, Single

If you don’t remember the last time you weren’t in a relationship, casually dating, or in an infatuation-ship, this list is for you. Raised in a world, where marriage and partnership is the norm, how is a singleton suppose to...

/ May 7, 2019

Can You Be in Love with Two People?

Longing. Pain. Desire. They are all tricky emotions. What you want and what you need. What is wrong and what is right. The Past and the Present. If you’re stuck between two people, could you truly be in love with...

/ April 20, 2019

I’m Not Ready for a Relationship (With You)

It is better to have loved than to not ever loved at all… BUT It is better to have escaped a doomed relationship than to have tried one after all. This is an open letter addressed to those who have...

/ April 1, 2019

Why You Should Date Outside Your Comfort Zone

Refresh, rebrand, and re-date! Forget your Type and unbundle all the possibilities of dating outside of your usual. Here’s what happens when you do. Provides More Opportunities When you toss the list, your options quadruple. Once you’re open to more...

/ February 26, 2019

How to Spot An Orbiter (And What to Do About It)

Orbiter: the guy who cycles in and out of your life, usually for a need (physical, emotional, or mental), attention, or an ego boost. He gets his fill and then departs until he returns to ‘orbit.’ The preceding formal definition...

/ January 22, 2019

12 Types of Profile Pics You’ll See On Tinder

You’re scrolling through Tinder. Swipe left. Left, Left, Left. And then Right! What made you swipe right? It’s probably because something about their profile picture spoke to you. These are the 12 types of profile pictures you’ll often see on...

/ December 7, 2018