Are Women Really Interested In Getting To Know You?

Sure there are a lot of nice, sweet, and beautiful women out there, who want nothing more than a highly successful man, because they know they deserve someone who is equally amazing.

Then there are the gold diggers of the world.  The women who would like nothing more than some rich sucker to pay for every meal, take them on vacations, and buy them those five hundred dollar pair of Jimmy Choo shoes that those evil wenches from Sex in the City strut around in, trying to resemble some form of sexiness.

Well for those of us who happen to be on the financially comfortable end of the spectrum, these types of women need to be avoided at all costs.  Otherwise you may find yourself waking up one day completely broke, and owing more child support than an NBA superstar.

Let’s take a look at a few signs that women may be after nothing more than what is in your wallet:

Whether it’s a day in the park, an afternoon at a local bar, or a five star restaurant, women who like you for you will be happy no matter what the activity is, as long as they get to spend time with you.  Those who are always, oh so subtly, hinting that they only want to go to the finest restaurants and places, may only be in the relationship for those exact reasons.

Has she spent half the dinner talking about the Prada bag that she has her eye on, or the new BMW that she wishes she could drive?  Bad sign.  When a woman is mainly focused on possessions, and shows no other depth, there is a good chance that this is all she cares about, and is secretly hoping that you will be the one to buy her these things.

When women are truly interested in you, they want to know intimate details about your life, such as where you are from, all the things that you feel strongly about, how you get along with your family members, etc.  When intimate details never come up, this means the woman has no true desire to get intimate with you either.

Think about how an average person would act if he or she were to date a celebrity.  They would probably ask endless questions about all of their crazy experiences; gush over what a great life they have, and constantly tell that celebrity how they wish they had those types of experiences.  It is for this exact reason that celebrities usually don’t date “regular” people.  These “regular” people aren’t interested in them, they are interested in the lifestyle.

Well when a woman acts like your biggest fan while dating, this is no different.  Chances are, she is much more interested in trying to live your lifestyle, than actually trying to live with you as a person.

Just because you are successful, doesn’t mean the woman shouldn’t put in any effort.  If you are on dates and she never reaches for her wallet, even for something as small as a cab ride, or never goes out of her way to help you, you are probably dealing with a girl who is not only selfish, but couldn’t care less about your happiness.  All she is seeing is the money.

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