Women, What Are YOUR Dating Deal Breakers?

A producer for a talk show approached me and asked if I would get some feedback on women's deal breakers for their would-be suitors, so definitely let me know what you think by leaving a comment below.

What are you deal breakers, ladies?  There are no wrong answers here.  In fact I'll share some of the deal breakers that a few women have given as reasons that they wouldn't date ME!  Yeah, I know!  Unbelievable!! I thought I was not only the most hugable guy around, but I thought I was the most datable, too!

Here are some deal breakers that women have given me over the years as reasons not to date me:

  • Too tall (Yeah, what ever, necky!)
  • Didn't own a watch
  • Didn't own a house
  • Too white! (Huh?)

Those are but a few of the three hundred thousand deal breakers women have shared with me over the years aka last week.

So, lady people, let me know what your deal breakers are.  The more specific the better.  Leave a comment below!

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  1. Horrible grammar…don't know why, but just can't do it! And teeth are definitely a requirement, singlegirlie.

  2. * Not being curious about the world.
    * Not having a grownup apartment — it doesn't have to be expensive, but it shouldn't look like a college dorm.
    * Being rude to a taxi driver or waiter.
    * Clingy
    * Has no friends… that's telling.
    * Lives more than 30 min travel time from me.
    * Then there's the obvious: lying, cheating, etc.
    .-= Loverville´s last blog ..Adventures in Speed Dating — the Grand Finale =-.

  3. Uptight and doesn't know how to relax and laugh one in a while.

    Slave to the gym.

    Cheap with his affections and his friends.

    Arrogance and rudeness to others.


  4. Doing drugs of any kind (and yes, even though you disagree with me, it includes pot)
    Having a kid
    Wearing flip flops on the first date (unless we are going to the beach i guess? I know this is a really weird one…)

    I dunno – I think those are my major ones… let me know how this goes…

  5. not accepting me for who I am, not being able to communicate – If your partner cant be honest and tell you that your ass really does look big in that pair of pants – well where's the truth and honesty? It's one of my pre-date questions in fact
    Hurt me honestly but dont love me with lies
    .-= Violet´s last blog ..Why you need to follow me on twitter =-.

  6. – Doesn't pursue knowledge/education
    – Can't carry on an intelligent conversation
    – No respect for other cultures / No desire to experience life outside his norm
    – Lazy / No motivation
    – Doesn't like the outdoors/being active
    – Jealous
    – Rude

  7. A guy with no confidence who doesn't know how to take control of a date. EG. asking me to pick the restaurant and talking down on himself at times.

  8. -Doesnt do What I ask.
    Not Funny but thinks hes funny
    doesnt care about family
    doesnt want kids
    any drugs
    Likes to waste money
    not active of any sort
    hates video games
    does not eat healthy at least sometimes
    I know what I want, and I deserve it:]

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