Category: Sex

Regarding matters of sex and sexuality

How to Hook Up in Sweden, Beach Style.

I had first read about travel culture in Alex Garland’s The Beach, while still an impressionable, and free-spirited, albeit slightly psychotic teenager. They made a movie based on this book. In case you were born in the nineties and need...

/ August 6, 2015

The Impact of the Media on the “Adult Dating” Niche.

There are many factors that have contributed to an increase in people getting involved and signing up to a new stream of “Adult Dating” sites. Sites such as Marital Affair paved the way in the UK and US as early...

/ June 23, 2015
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What is the Difference Between BDSM and Abuse?

First of all, while I come not to praise Fifty Shades of Grey, neither do I come to bury it. The bashing and dissecting of its prose style and its depictions of D/s relationships have already been done, sometimes to...

/ February 27, 2015

How to Talk Dirty to Your Man

I've talked about talking dirty and how to go about it in the past. I haven't really covered how guys like dirty talk, too. It's not all that surprising. Men and women are, after all, sexual beings. The one thing...

/ February 25, 2015

The Face-Sitting Protest of Censorship in the UK

The X-Rated Power of the People You may have heard about that wacky protest that took place this winter, but what was it actually protesting against? If you've been following the news in recent months, you may have heard of...

/ February 2, 2015
My FIrst Threesome

My First Threesome

It was almost 10pm. I was in my skivvies, watching something on Netflix, eating pickles from a jar and scratching my crotch. I know, it's hot. Right? I get a call. It's from a gal that I'm seeing, Julie. She...

/ December 23, 2014
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Passport to Love: Travel and Dating

Ask almost anyone whether you should travel while you’re young, single, and unencumbered by huge responsibilities and you’ll likely get a resounding “Yes!” Your grandmother’s loudly voiced concerns about your financial future notwithstanding, most people are incredibly supportive of the...

/ December 21, 2014
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Friends with Benefits…Without Intimacy?

There are times in an adults life where a friends with benefits situation could be useful. I don't believe the concept is bad. However, when did having friends with benefits mean that there is no tenderness or intimacy? A person...

/ December 19, 2014