Category: Sex

Regarding matters of sex and sexuality

Dating Mr. Unavailable is Unavoidable

Bridging the gap of unavailability This article was originally posted here: http://www.letters-to-oliver.com/ Unripe fruit is like unavailable love; it just isn’t good. -Angela Ah, unavailable love.  Wonka’s illustrious golden ticket to never ever-moving from emotional exchanges and passionate sex to...

/ January 5, 2016
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Sometimes You’re Bad at Sex

I read a piece, by Melanie Curtain, over at EJ, about her top 3 sex problems. I suggest giving it a thorough once-over. I gave it a twice over. Sometimes you're bad at sex. I'm not talking about you. I'm...

/ December 29, 2015

Why I hate 50 Shades of Grey: An Account on S&M Abuse

I own a copy of 50 shades of Grey…but I've proudly never read it. I know the arguments and I know the synopsis. Woman meets tortured soul who gives her great, if not strange sex and she apparently “changes” him....

/ November 19, 2015

12 Things I Learned About Men By Having Sex With Them

When you read dating advice, it seems like men and women are different species who can only communicate through emotional manipulation. The PUAs teach men to get the girls by gaming them into submission. The Rules teach women to act...

/ October 13, 2015

How to Hook Up in Sweden, Beach Style.

I had first read about travel culture in Alex Garland’s The Beach, while still an impressionable, and free-spirited, albeit slightly psychotic teenager. They made a movie based on this book. In case you were born in the nineties and need...

/ August 6, 2015

The Impact of the Media on the “Adult Dating” Niche.

There are many factors that have contributed to an increase in people getting involved and signing up to a new stream of “Adult Dating” sites. Sites such as Marital Affair paved the way in the UK and US as early...

/ June 23, 2015
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What is the Difference Between BDSM and Abuse?

First of all, while I come not to praise Fifty Shades of Grey, neither do I come to bury it. The bashing and dissecting of its prose style and its depictions of D/s relationships have already been done, sometimes to...

/ February 27, 2015

How to Talk Dirty to Your Man

I've talked about talking dirty and how to go about it in the past. I haven't really covered how guys like dirty talk, too. It's not all that surprising. Men and women are, after all, sexual beings. The one thing...

/ February 25, 2015