Category: Sex

Regarding matters of sex and sexuality

12 Things I Learned About Men By Having Sex With Them

When you read dating advice, it seems like men and women are different species who can only communicate through emotional manipulation. The PUAs teach men to get the girls by gaming them into submission. The Rules teach women to act...

/ October 13, 2015

How to Hook Up in Sweden, Beach Style.

I had first read about travel culture in Alex Garland’s The Beach, while still an impressionable, and free-spirited, albeit slightly psychotic teenager. They made a movie based on this book. In case you were born in the nineties and need...

/ August 6, 2015

The Impact of the Media on the “Adult Dating” Niche.

There are many factors that have contributed to an increase in people getting involved and signing up to a new stream of “Adult Dating” sites. Sites such as Marital Affair paved the way in the UK and US as early...

/ June 23, 2015
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What is the Difference Between BDSM and Abuse?

First of all, while I come not to praise Fifty Shades of Grey, neither do I come to bury it. The bashing and dissecting of its prose style and its depictions of D/s relationships have already been done, sometimes to...

/ February 27, 2015

How to Talk Dirty to Your Man

I've talked about talking dirty and how to go about it in the past. I haven't really covered how guys like dirty talk, too. It's not all that surprising. Men and women are, after all, sexual beings. The one thing...

/ February 25, 2015
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50 Shades of Are You Fucking Kidding Me?

If you follow the Urban Dater on Twitter, you already know that I went to see Fifty Shades of Grey this last weekend (after downing three drinks in quick succession at the nearby Applebee's, naturally). The dear, dashing Bastard Keith did the...

/ February 19, 2015

The Face-Sitting Protest of Censorship in the UK

The X-Rated Power of the People You may have heard about that wacky protest that took place this winter, but what was it actually protesting against? If you've been following the news in recent months, you may have heard of...

/ February 2, 2015
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Your Bullshit Shall Not Pass (and a Happy New Year!)

Happy New Year from the Urban Dater! Another year has gone by–oh boy! I can hardly believe it’s 2015. Holy shit, dudes. I hate to be the bearer of bad (and obvious) news, but we’re all getting older (my little...

/ January 13, 2015