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How to Make This a Conversation That Will Never Be Forgotten!

Phone sex can seem like a scary step into the unknown, but it really is a way to take your sex life to the next level.

An important part of a relationship is trying new things out with your partner. Phone sex can be a great way to make your relationship that little bit more exciting, and if you bear these tips in mind, it can be a truly great experience for the both of you.

A time and place

Obviously, you can’t both indulge your desire for phone sex at any time of the day. Work, time differences and various commitments can get in the way all too often, so it’s important to establish a suitable time and place. Either pre-arrange a time during which you want to call each other, or if you are feeling spontaneous, send a cheeky text message initiating the conversation. Maybe even attach a picture of yourself to get your partner’s pulse racing. If they are busy at the time, the wait will make your conversation all the more explosive!

Playing the part

Phone sex can be a great way to adopt a naughty new persona. Try acting out those scenarios that you’ve always wanted to try in the bedroom but have been too embarrassed to approach. If you are a couple who regularly indulge in phone sex, this can be a great way to make your conversations even steamier!

So, what are you doing?

Always ask your partner what they are doing just as much as you tell them about what you are up to. Showing your partner that you are turned on by whatever they are doing on the other end of the line will increase their confidence, resulting in phone sex that is uninhibited and great for both parties.

Wish you were here

Often, couples in long distance relationships use phone sex as a way of remaining intimate when they are not able to be with each other physically. Letting your partner know that you are missing them and would like them to be with you right now will allow you to talk in detail about what you would do to each other if you were together, making your fantasies all the more realistic.

Silence is not golden

Don’t allow any awkward silences to develop. As things get steamier, you may find that sentences get shorter. When you are not speaking, let those silences be filled with moans, heavy breathing and those sounds that your partner knows and loves. Those noises can say just as much as any sentence can!

Just relax

Nothing will dampen the mood more than your mind being elsewhere. Before you pick up the phone, take some time to have a long soak in the bath, light some candles and let your mind wander to where you want it to go. Being relaxed will allow you to immerse yourself in the conversation, making it an experience that you will definitely want to repeat!

Feel good about yourself

Your first few attempts at phone sex can make you feel awkward and nervous, but there is really no need to worry. Remember, your partner loves you for who you are, and as long as you are yourself, you will both have a great time. Wear something that you feel sexy in, and tell your partner how good you feel. Confidence really is a great aphrodisiac!

Time to pick up the phone!

Now that you know how to make phone sex great for your partner, there’s really no excuse not to pick up that phone. Just make sure you’ve remembered to charge it up, as this is one conversation you are not going to want to cut short!

 

 

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Posted by Jennifer Ainslie-Turner

Jenny Ainsley Turner is the founder of Jenny’s Extreme Chat which specialises in extreme hardcore phone chat.

2 Comments

  1. Yeah! Nice post, that’s the way a get hottest conversation by phone with my boyfriend. In french we call it : Sexe au telephone 😉

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    1. Ooh lala

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