Well here’s another question posed to the Urban Dater recently.
What does it mean if a guy gives you his number? Does it mean he’s not interested? Does it matter?
A solid question, lil’ mama and yeah, it does matter!
In the approach game, if a guy is interested in a girl, he should approach her open a conversation and close by saying his goodbyes and hopefully get a number. That’s the general, if over simplified, way that interaction should break down. That the guy gave you HIS number does mean that he’s interested but, in my opinion, he’s lacking the confidence to really ask you out. I suppose he may truly be not interested, but in either case you should NOT call that number, no matter how good looking the guy is or how many days have passed.
You see, I feel that if there’s something you want in life, you make an effort. Anything worth having is worth making an effort for… Sometimes people forget that. Firstly do you not want someone who actually makes an effort to attain the things that they want; desire out of life? I know I do. Part of it is being goal oriented, part of it is just taking the drivers seat in life. Secondly, aren’t YOU worth the effort? Yeah, you are worth the effort. A woman should be pursued! That’s what women really want! She should feel wanted and a man needs to understand this and make an effort.
In short, no, do not call this guy. If he can’t be bothered to ask you out; you certainly can’t be bothered to contact him. He’s not worth the time or the effort after all.
Until next time, ladies, don’t be givin’ no time to chicken heads!