THE CURIOUS CASE OF THE COMMITMENT PHOBE

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What happened? Why hasn’t he called? Was he even interested? Did he die? While you lay awake perusing his old text messages and reminiscing about his quick pursuit, the Commitment Phobe was already mentally packing his bags just as he approached your dating profile page. Whether a matter of hours, days or weeks, this guy suddenly stops calling or … [Read more...]

Why Extra Marital Affairs Might be Worth it.

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  This post contains sponsored link(s) from Digital Anvil Being into a relationship with the one person is one of the most difficult commitment anyone will ever have to go through. The hard work needed and the trust involved to keep that boat floating are second to none, putting people under a lot of pressure on a daily basis. And it works for … [Read more...]

How to Get Over Breakup Blues

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Many of us have suffered a breakup at least once when we were in our teens. Falling in love is the easiest thing to do when one is young and carefree. It is also fashionable to be in a relationship, and when we feel attracted to another person, we feel a sense of happiness and comfort knowing that we are not going to be alone anymore. What is true … [Read more...]

Your Greatest Love Affair is with Yourself

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My mother always warned me about never loving too hard. She would tell me to always remember my own name. You can love someone, but you can never love someone too fiercely...because what will happen when they leave the room? Will the air go out with them? I erase every imperfection that I have ever had in my past relationships. At night when I dream, I … [Read more...]

3 Principles Behind Falling in Love or Back into Love

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Love. The most mysterious of things. We tend to want to see it like magic, some type of trick or power that we can't quite understand. To a certain degree love IS magical. To this day, scientists are far from fully understanding the inner workings of the human brain, so it's not too surprising then that love has somewhat of an unknown facet to it, kind of … [Read more...]

11 Steps to Make Your Relationship Last

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Everyone strives for that "happily ever after" in their relationship--whether the relationship is good or bad, the goal remains the same. So the question is, “Is this something only in books and movies, or is this something real?” The answer to both is yes. In fairy tales and movies, the writer draws you into the happily ever after by creating a long … [Read more...]

How to Keep Your Relationship from Going Stale

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When first courting a love interest, we are so keen to present the best version of ourselves to a potential partner. We’re clean, we're shaven, and we smell fantastic. We’re funny--even charming! We make the effort to go out, visit nice places, and do fun activities. We make cute little gestures to show this wonderful new person that we care about … [Read more...]

The Truth About Dating a Cougar

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The definition of a cougar is… Let’s throw out our definition of what a cougar is and be real. If you have ever thought about dating an older woman (and who hasn’t?), you’re probably familiar with the way the fantasy of cougar dating plays out. A glamorous cougar type like Demi Moore inhabits the role of sex kitten and personal bank account for a naïve … [Read more...]