Fashion Advice for Men to Get Laid in The Sultry Summers

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There are so many good things about the breezy, sultry summer. From pool or beach parties to drinking cold pilsner on hot afternoons, there is no dearth of activities during the warmer months. This also means a lot of hot girls flashing their heart-wrenching bronzed leg. In short, it’s a perfect time to get laid on your first date. But amid so many good … [Read more...]

Lazy Sunday Afternoon Date Ideas

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Lazy Sunday Afternoon: No Mind For You Or Your Partner To Worry Lazy Sunday Afternoon: No Mind For You Or Your Partner To Worry Sunday Morning. It’s perhaps the perfect morning of the week. Unless you’re suffering with a sore head and ringing ears from the excess whisky and live music from the night before. In which case, it’s bacon time. But if all is … [Read more...]

Who Needs a Knight in Shining Armor?

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Knights in shining armor are great, right? What happens when you don’t need to be saved anymore? What happens when you're no longer a damsel in distress and there is nothing left to fix? What happens to the happily ever after? This is a story about a damsel, myself, who met someone at her most vulnerable place in life. My knight was a tall, not age … [Read more...]

5 Important Lessons I Learned From My Worst Date Ever

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Rushing from the cab into the inner city bar we’d arranged to meet at, I quietly cursed myself for not having planned ahead more and arrived on time. My tights had snagged, my door keys snuggled out of sight between the sofa cushions and a spring rain downpour had made a warm afternoon into a curly-haired girls nightmare. Oh well, I’d made it. Soon I’d be … [Read more...]

Confessions of a “Church Girl”

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“So you’re a church girl,” he said. I laughed to myself. Here we go. “No, I’m Christian who happens to be a woman,” I said. I’m a preacher’s daughter and grew up in church all of my life. Now I’m fully aware of the stereotype and misconceptions that come with being the “church girl.” Let me see if I get this right. We’re freaks. We say we go to … [Read more...]

Tips for Introducing Children When Dating as a Single Parent

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If you are a single parent, and have taken the plunge into the dating world again, there will come a time when you need to introduce your new partner to your children. This is a potentially tricky situation for a number of reasons. However, if you have jumped into single parent dating and have met somebody new, then there are some steps you can take to make … [Read more...]

Tips for Making Long Distance College Relationships Work

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Making a long distance college relationship work can be challenging. In case you and your loved one are going to different places to study, you will have to make a choice. A lot of couples think that they won't be able to handle the stress of such experience and they prefer to end things in advance. Trying to make it work, though, will be definitely worth … [Read more...]

How to Make a Woman Chase You – 4 Simple steps

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It may be traditional for the man to make the first move, but getting a girl to chase remains an essential step in any courtship. Women love the thrill of the chase just as much as men. This is especially true with the most beautiful women, who have an array of dating options handed to them on a platter. They won’t admit it, but these women want a man … [Read more...]

Vote for the Urban Dater for a Kick Ass Blog Award Thingy!

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We're not quite sure how it happened, but your kids at the Urban Dater are up for an award. Not just some random award but a Bad Ass Blog award, from the Bloggessess over at the Indie Chicks. We love them and what they do; so you can imagine just how shocked we were to get a nod. So would you all be so kind as to help us out on this one? We need your … [Read more...]