5 Signs She May Not Be The One

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Is she the one? If so, what makes her so special? In the beginning of every relationship there are signs you should be consciously aware of. We have been conditioned to believe relationships are based on spontaneity, luck and uncontrollable circumstances with emotions. Understanding and effectively dealing with women is somewhat like a sport. Today, I’m … [Read more...]

Women Tell Us How To Properly Ask Women Out

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Women Tell Us How To Properly Ask Women Out Last week I surveyed some of my female friends about how they like to be asked out. I queried them on what makes one approach different from the next, and what tips they have for men asking women out. I received a ton of responses, and have slowly started pulling out the relevant data to help you guys … [Read more...]

Don’t Be A Pussy!

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When I take guys out to start approaching women for the first time, nearly every single one has some fear of what they are about to do. We even have a term for it - "approach anxiety" - the fear of approaching a girl you've never met. As well as this, a large proportion of my students also have a fear of moving things on with the girl - in other words … [Read more...]

5 Reasons Not To Slow Fade Your New Relationship

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"It's better to burn out than to fade away" Neil Young said it best. He was probably referring to Rock and Roll but he might as well have been talking about the heart. I've been spending a lot of time lately thinking about breaking up, ending relationships, and how to do it with honesty, tact, and love. Too often I hear stories about people ending … [Read more...]

The Day We Stopped Being “Friends”

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I'm not sure when it happened. Was it Tuesday? Maybe a week ago, or a random Sunday morning, as you curled up on the couch, with your laptop. Whatever the day, you made a conscious effort to remove me as a "friend" on Facebook... This whole non FB friend thing isn't news. I wrote you to congratulate you; I wrote you as if it was the "normal" thing to do. … [Read more...]

How to Separate the Men from the Boys

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Why is it that all good intentions you have before embarking on the dating scene again seem to go to pot when you finally meet a guy? After a bad break-up, we all make ourselves promises of ‘never again’ and ‘the next guy will have this or that’. But when your friends are getting hitched, or announcing their pregnancies on social media, it can be … [Read more...]

Sexonomics; Revised

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In my previous blog, I referred to sex as a commodity (and it most certainly is), but I feel the need to post an update after a recent experience. ***This is NSFW Though I do believe sex isn't something to be made available to anyone who asks, I have revised the firmness of my previous stance. As I have embarked upon incredible life changes in the past … [Read more...]

Tips for Playing the Dating Game, and Why You’re Already Winning

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I deal with a lot of questions from new singles every day and the one thing that connects them all is a lack of confidence. Their worries when it comes to dating are always centred around what they’re doing wrong or why they’ve failed in the past. This dating game can be hard, and repeated failures will grind anyone down. But the one thing that these people … [Read more...]