Ejaculation Location

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I’m talking about aim (or lack of it!), and about male, as opposed to female ejaculation...just to be clear. I used to have a joke in my stand up routine that men would often say “Oh my God, I’m so sorry! Did I get you in the eye? I was genuinely aiming for your breasts!" Yes, seriously, those words have been uttered, both onstage and privately! And my … [Read more...]

Datebook: Where the Bizarre World of Online Dating Comes to Life

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In this ever increasingly fast-paced world, who hasn’t had at least some experience with the horrible/wonderful world of online dating?  During the early parts of the relationship with my boyfriend Eric, we would often commiserate together over the many ridiculous online dating experiences we both had before meeting each other (thankfully in the wild – not … [Read more...]

What Your Sleep Position Reveals About Your Relationship

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Sleeping positions can reveal a lot about you; for example, if you hog the bed (my all time favourite position), it signifies that you like to have control of things - and that sums me up completely! However, your sleeping position with your partner can say even more about the type of relationship that you have. Whether you sleep with your back to your … [Read more...]

Get Safer Online Dating with Kitestring

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The horror stories about catfishing and the fears of meeting axe murderers off of Craigslist have long been cited as a reason to avoid meeting people offline, but timid potential online daters, fear no more. Kitestring, a web app that launched earlier this year, is here to save the day. I stumbled across Kitestring yesterday, and it immediately occurred to … [Read more...]

A Girl’s Dilemma: Should I Go Up to His Apartment?

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Recently, a girlfriend of mine went on a third date with a man she met online. She said the first two dates had been incredible, and she was extremely excited for the third date. They were going to go to dinner, and then to see an independent film that was showing in a theater nearby. But soon excitement turned to nerves when she realized the restaurant … [Read more...]

Kelly Seal and Her New Book Date Expectations

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Recently I had the chance to interview writer, journalist, and award-winning dating blogger Kelly Seal about her new book Date Expectations: A Guide to Changing Your Dating Life and Finding Real Love. Perhaps you've read some of Kelly's sage dating advice over on Huffington Post, Digital Romance, or her own blog. If not, here's an opportunity for you to get … [Read more...]

A Friday Night Date Gone Badly…

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I sat there, in anticipation of my Friday Night Date, at the bar admiring a glass of La "La Cuveé des Piche" (it sounded pretty rad, so I ordered the fucking thing) and couldn't look away from how the light played with the wine, as it peeked through the deep red colors. I swirled it around, inspecting it as if I had the first fucking clue as to what I was … [Read more...]

Okcupid Supports Love by Rejecting Mozilla Firefox

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GOOD NEWS! Valleywag recently reported that Okcupid has been redirecting Mozilla Firefox users to other browsers in a show of support for LGBTQ folk! A while back, Mozilla’s CEO Brendan Eich financially supported Prop 8, a California proposition that banned gay marriage in the state. TechCrunch covered the controversy that ensued after his private donation … [Read more...]

HowAboutWe Makes Online Dating Hella Easy

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In this day and age, most of us are familiar with the perks and perils of online dating. Those of us who are the delightful combination of socially awkward and somewhat technically savvy have been navigating the tumultuous waters of meeting folks online long before it became socially acceptable, and to this day act as mentors to our single friends who … [Read more...]

Weddings and Social Media: Keep It Simple, Stupid

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Yesterday morning I was sipping on my coffee and nearly dribbled on myself in disgust when I came across this garbage:  Now You Can Get a $3,000 “Social Media Concierge” For Your Wedding. So apparently the W Hotel is offering someone who will “livetweet” (a term that always makes me laugh, as all tweeting is live) your wedding, as well as “[curate] a … [Read more...]