Category: Asides

10 Signs to Suspect an Office Romance

Forbes Magazine says: “Of those who have dated a coworker, 42 percent said they had an ongoing, casual relationship; 36 percent said they had a “random office hookup;” 29 percent had been in a serious, long-term relationship; and 16 percent...

/ November 14, 2017

The 10 Worst Ideas for the First Date

A single detail matters on the first date. It goes without saying that, ideally, you two should feel comfortable and enjoy each other’s company. However, it can be pretty hard to do that, especially if the venue of your date...

/ April 21, 2016

Our Twitter Account Could Use a New Couples Photo for Our Header Image. Maybe Yours!

We just kinda publish articles all day here, at the Urban Dater. But For the last however many years it's been, we've just featured a picture of a city or a male/female couple on our Twitter Header image. We COULD...

/ August 15, 2015
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the Urban Dater Seeks Contributors!

Hi Urban Daters! As you know, we're about a month and a half into the new year, and we've been long teasing what's to come for the Urban Dater. We've been working on big things (including an e-book that we're...

/ February 12, 2015

Giving Thanks and a Birthday

I started getting a few messages from folks on LinkedIn congratulating me. Surely, I'd done something shitty, but no. Upon further investigation, I saw that LinkedIn alerted the world that I'd been “working at” the Urban Dater for 6 years...

/ November 27, 2014

Perspective is Everything.

My friends were there laughing. I'd just told them how I'd had a threesome with a cute woman and her chihuahua (not really, but the chihuahua really makes for a good punchline) and they were rolling. “Really!!?” they asked.  I...

/ August 7, 2014

A Message on OkCupid

If you know me, you know that I'm a turd and generally an asshole. So when I tell my friends about the insane messages I sometimes send people they're not surprised and I'm sure you won't be either. I'm sharing...

/ February 11, 2014
Online Dating Tips for Women

Online Dating Tips for Women

Most of the people who come to this site are women. Which is great. I love the fuck out of women. With the holidays upon us, I've thought a lot about why women get frustrated with dating online. The fact...

/ December 25, 2013