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About a Sex-Aid

yannibmbr on December 22, 2012
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Yeah, she's sorta cute.

Yeah, she's sorta cute.

Today's bit is about a gal that I've been friends with for a while now. Her name is Kira Lansing and, well, she's a hot piece of ass, if I do say so myself. Don't believe me? Well, you can do your own research.

Not that you're a therapist, but do you sometimes find what you do to be a type of therapy for the folks that come to see you? Or is more to satisfy an “urge?” Anyway, I'm thrilled she took some time to answer a few of my asshole questions and provide some insight into her line of work.
1) Yes, I see it many times as being a ‘Sex Aid', which I think is a great title  🙂  I have come across men who open up and tell me very private things such as being a virgin at 40 years old, men who want to pay to skype with me to get dating advice, for exampleWhat's one thing that you truly enjoy about what you do?

Did you find that there was a “line” you had to draw in your work? I mean, snuff films I imagine are one of them… No one ever comes back for the sequel… =-/

2) It's fun as long as you know how to strategize and make sure no one trolls you, which as you know, is a skill through experience.
Coolest thing that you've done as a result of what you do for work. This could be places you've travelled, sites seen or anything that just made you say “neat!”

Did you find that there was a “line” you had to draw in your work? I mean, snuff films I imagine are one of them… No one ever comes back for the sequel… =-/

3) Yes, scat. Also, being pimped out to basketball players at the All Stars game. Ya know, the things that not many people are comfortable with. All Star players, I imagine, don't use protection often.

Coolest thing that you’ve done as a result of what you do for work. This could be places you’ve travelled, sites seen or anything that just made you say “neat!”

4) Hmm. I have gotten paid to dip my hair in a tub of water. He became a regular and he was the man who admitted being a virgin to me after several sessions. I was also on the Susan Block show, which was pretty neato!

What would you suggest to someone looking to get into the type of work you do?

5) Research research and figure out what you're comfortable doing in your shows, find strategies you feel fit your personality and above all learn how to play the game to avoid getting taken advantage of!!!!

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Alex is the founder, creative director and managing editor at the Urban Dater. Alex also runs his own boutique marketing agency in Orange County, Ca: DigiSavvy. Among his treasured pursuits are bike rides with his girlfriend (don't be perverted, now!), hiking, watching the Portland Trailblazers and the LA Angels. Follow Alex: Twitter | LinkedIn

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