I’ve never been good with ‘traditional’ relationships. There’s only so long that someone like me can hide his neurosis. I make a great first impression, but women tend to break up with me around the time they come home and find me naked on the couch watching Batman and dipping fried chicken in spaghettios. Naturally,…
You probably have a coworker, friend, or classmate who you envy—she’s gorgeous, classy, funny, and attracts guys like a Venus flytrap pulling in flies. It’s time to stop envying her and start being her. Face it: you’re not in high school anymore. And even if you are, jealousy isn’t becoming at any age. Besides, there’s…
They may not want to admit it, but women love cars. What’s more, they love a hot guy in a hot car. When a woman sees your car for the first time she isn’t only sizing up your ride, but also sizing up you. Does your car say you are adventurous or conservative, wild or…
Men are simple, simple things. It’s this simple-mindedness that makes them hard to buy a gift for. One often over looked gift to get for any man are accessories. Jewelry in particular. Say what? Yeah, I said the jewels, baby. I see more and more fan “upping” their fashion game by wearing some extra ‘swag’…
If you’re reading this, chances are you’re aware of just how much dating advice is out there. Books, magazines, websites, friends and family – it can seem endless, because it is. And I’ve read a lot of it while trying to improve my own love life. A few books in, however, I started feeling overwhelmed…
The idea of dating a ladyboy may be outrageous to some people but in reality, it’s not all that bad. Just like everybody else, ladyboys also want to have someone by their side to love and accept them. If they happen to find one who’s willing to give them that, they’ll be just as willing…
Thanks to the 50 Shades of Grey craze we have thrown off our sexually repressed shackles and are embracing our sexuality and sexual prowess. 2012 seems to have been a landmark year with couples engaging in more adventurous bedroom antics and research has proven that it is feisty females who are driving this change and…
“What do I do?!” I exclaimed to my friend as I stared down at my phone. Pulled up on the screen: a photo of a hot dude posing in a cute little red handkerchief around his neck right before running with the bulls in Spain. I just got the notification that he and I matched…
Yep, I’m back in the saddle again, so to speak. Being a single free agent once more isn’t all it’s cracked up to be. “But, can’t you go out and get laid a bazillion times, Alex?” Well, not really… Nope…Not a glimmer of a hope. That’s not to say I couldn’t get laid. I CAN….
Whether you have been in a relationship for a month or 20 years, it is difficult to maintain that same spark you had when you first met. It is common to get so comfortable with your partner that you begin to get caught up in life and take it for granted that your partner will…
Guess who is back from the trail? That’s right our favorite bearded ginger the Good Badger, Zach Davis. He sent me an email last night taking a break from his serious writing & whipped up this gem. I laughed, I cried, it was better than Cats. Ladies who’ve read and obeyed The Rules, Zach &…
If there’s one thing you’ve learned about the Urban Dater it should be this: Taylor and I call each other “asshole” a lot and we love technology. Yep, it’s true and I have the phones to prove it! One thing we always like to do is to keep up with new trends in dating and…
