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Great Sexpectations: Our Sex Lives Revealed

Rebecca Jones on March 15, 2013
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we-vibe2Thanks to the 50 Shades of Grey craze we have thrown off our sexually repressed shackles and are embracing our sexuality and sexual prowess.

2012 seems to have been a landmark year with couples engaging in more adventurous bedroom antics and research has proven that it is feisty females who are driving this change and dominating in the boudoir.

According to Swedish brand Lelo, 76% of women tell their partner exactly what they want in the bedroom. This finding comes from a survey they carried out featuring 10,000 women from 8 countries, whilst 43% have used whips with their partner to spice things up.  The survey also revealed that for every sex session, people experiment with an average of 3 positions. This is up from 1 in 2011.

We have gone from being a nation of restrained prudes to a country embracing spanking and kinky sex positions, bringing bondage, whips and anal beads into the mainstream. Sex is no longer considered a taboo subject. Instead, the 50 Shades Trilogy has become a cultural phenomenon, breaking social conventions, crossing oceans, penetrating different class barriers, revolutionising the way we view porn and talk and think about sex.

The survey, carried out by Lelo also found that people are heavily investing in erotic accessories to spice up things in the bedroom. Their annual sales data revealed that role play lingerie sales are up by 34%. Sexy costumes are great for bringing a new and exciting twist to your bedroom antics. Whether its a sexy French maid ensemble or a naughty schoolgirl number, make your fantasies come alive with a kinky little outfit. For a festive touch, you could even dress up as one of Santa’s little helper and give Santa the ride of his life!

Meanwhile sales of couples’ vibrators are up by 200% in the last year. One of the most hotly anticipated sex toy is the We Vibe 2. This meticulously designed piece can be used solo or as a couple. Share the vibe – road test this stunning piece and experience the harmonic throbbing that this vibrator is famed for. This enthralling sex toy simultaneously stimulates the lady’s clitoris and G-spot, inducing pleasure pulses which resonates deep inside her. With 9 vibration modes to experiment and play with, synchronized orgasms have never been so effortless and enjoyable.

Another interesting discovery which was uncovered by Lelo’s survey was that Ben Wa Balls’ sales were up by a massive 400%. Otherwise known as Geisha Balls, Orgasm Balls and Venus Balls, these beautifully crafted love balls are made from 100% medical grade silicone and ABS plastic. This ensures they have a firm, solid feel when you place them inside you. For heightened, intensified orgasms, introduce Ben Wa Balls into your bedroom frolics. These smooth, rounded delights will not only strengthen your pelvic floor muscles but have the added bonus of providing pleasure along the way.

Author Bio: Rebecca is a feisty, 21st century female who oozes sexual prowess. She frequently writes about exciting ways to inject a new lease of life into your bedroom antics and is always on the lookout for new and exciting designer sex toys.

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Rebecca is a feisty, 21st century female who has a designer sex toy fetish. She frequently writes about fun and exciting ways to liven up bedroom antics.

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  1. Tizz March 17, 2013 at 4:18 pm

    Maybe I missed it, but where’s the study you based your entire article on? It’s pretty lazy not to even link to it.

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