It all began with a cheerful call: “Son, I’ve just signed up for that e-dating site, E-Harmony,” my mom said with over bearing enthusiasm. Good for her! I was actually very happy for her to get on the online dating bandwagon I’d been so fondly a member of. You see, my mom had just gotten…
Today we’re offering up a something a little different. Today’s piece is from ‘Consumingtheart,’ a long time reader, first time contributor to the Urban Dater. Today she’s going to provide us with a very personal, heart-felt, goodbye letter. I’ve always been fascinated with the notion of a “Dear John” letter. Writing a letter provides an…
Perhaps you’re a nice guy. You don’t take advantage of a situation; you let your buddy get in there with the girl. Maybe you don’t take chances. Maybe you feel that you’re just a genuinely good guy, great even. Perhaps you feel you’re so freaking nice and awesome you never have to eat the heel…
Forgive me if I sound bitter. Forgive me for not being able to crossover into the unknown, the future, also known as “moving on.” Forgive me if I give you the most righteous middle finger you have seen this side of the Santa Ana River. Please. Kick rocks and when you’re done with that disappear…
“What talk?” You ask. There’s a lot of talking a couple has to do before they even get to the serious phase a relationship, let alone marriage. This is something that’s been getting thrown around within the social media circles I run in. So how soon is too soon to start talking about potentially “deal…
I was having lunch with a good friend of mine the other day and we were talking about relationships (what a surprise, right?) and we got to the topic of an area that they consistently have disagreements on: Having people over and hosting a party. My friend, she likes a good party and loves having…
