Lets face it…most of the women you'll meet in a lifetime are going to be incompetent. The majority will be immature little girls with a small percentage of women. Does age matter? Sometimes yes and no. Why? Because the female's environment determines her level of maturity.
A female can only thrive in a healthy and loving environment. And her relationship with her parents is absolutely critical, because it usually predetermined how she interacts with men.
The maturity level between a woman and a girl is like night and day. Women and girls see the world differently. They understand and interact with the world differently. Girls come dime or dozen, however women are rare.
I'm not saying its hard to find a woman, girls just happen to be the majority in most environments.
And it's not completely the female's fault because we can't help how we grew up and where we are from. However, a wise man once told me, “its not how you start its how you finish.”
Unfortunately, as man you have to make sure you don't put too much time and value into a girl otherwise it could be the worst decision of your life. It can be very difficult to distinguish between a woman and a girl, however there are some giveaways.
1. Girls expect their men to become mind readers while women use words.
Ladies…men are not mind readers. Personally, I wish I was a mind reader that way I would be able to see how people really feel about me. However, that's not the case and it's simply easier to express your inner feelings and ideas with WORDS.
Besides most men aren't good at picking up hints or signals. As a result, some female's get frustrated and begin speaking their minds.
2. Girls go out and get wasted…women can handle their liquor.
Women don't hound the table at the club and get loud with the bartender if he/she makes a mistake with the drinks. Girls drink like a fish in order to get hammered and it allows them to make poor decisions.
Women do drink their fair share, however they know their limits and never drink to the point of losing control. Women are always in control.
3. Girls like to dress in revealing clothing to look sexy…women know they look sexy no matter what they wear.
Women understand being provocative doesn't equate to being sexy. A woman doesn’t have to show what she got in order to feel sexually appealing. Women are so confident in their own skin that they do not care what they are wearing. Women know they are sexy because they decided to be sexy.
4. Girls can’t wait to update their Facebook status to “In a relationship”…women forget they have a Facebook.
Women don't make a big deal about Facebook broadcasting on the web with her status. Besides women are too busy with real life being productive. They will probably update their status when they happen to be on Facebook and remember to do so, however they won’t go running onto the site the second they think an updated status might piss their man off.
5. Girls watch garbage on television…women don't
Some television shows are decent, however the majority are pretty much garbage and unconstructive. Women do have their television shows and they also like to spend their time with reading books and magazines of substance.
Women strive to have a balance of entertainment with substance in there lives. There lives will not be dominated by meaningless pop-culture garbage. Women like to stay sharp and girls like to keep occupied.
6. Girls are simple minded…women know how to hold a stimulating conversation.
This is one of the biggest differentiating factors. Most girls are awful at holding conversations and aren’t interested in global affairs. They don’t have any hobbies or interests. And they don't know how to think for themselves. As a result, they take the opinions of others and act like its their own. Girls are boring and women are fascinating.
7. Girls only do what they know…women are always expanding their horizons.
Women take life by the horns and run with it. Women are always seeking more and understand the importance of experiencing life. Women explore the world as much as possible, meet new people and explore possibilities. Women are passionate, driven and they have a no-limit attitude towards life. Girls aren’t really sure what their purpose is and they’re hoping to find a man to rescue them and show them the way.
8. Girls need protective custody…women don't.
There is nothing worst than a needy girl. And there is nothing more sexier than a woman who can take care of herself. All females are capable of taking care of themselves. Girls like to coast along in life looking for handouts.
Women take what they want and don’t seek validation by anyone. They are reliable, confident and independent. Women are the future and girls are the past.
There you have it, the eight signs you’re dating a woman and not a little girl. Feel free to like and share this message with your circle of influence on the social media networks.
Great list Lopaze! Could I add one:
“Girls need you. Women are already loving life!”