Tag: advice

Is It Bliss or Did You Settle?

Is it Bliss or Did You Settle? This question has perplexed me for a very long time. This weekend has brought it to the forefront of my mind, and that's why we are discussing it. Somehow this past weekend, before...

/ February 21, 2017
putting women on a pedastal

Stop Putting Women on a Pedestal. Put Yourself on One Instead.

Hi, guys, it's your favorite no frills blogger Jimmy M, back at it with pedestals, pedestals, and more motherfucking pedestals! As well as who you should never put on them (hot girls). Ahem, most men make the mistake of putting...

/ July 7, 2016

May I Not Have This Dance? 3 Dances That Can (and Will) Ruin Your Relationship

Photo Cred: Thomas Kelley May I not have this dance? 3 Dances that can (and will) ruin your relationship. Everybody talks about in order to have a good, strong relationship with your partner, you need to have a “solid foundation.”...

Eleven Years a Date

I’ve been on the dating scene for a long time. My friends who are married or single but not looking, love to be regaled with stories about dates – the good, the bad and the ugly. After telling these stories...

/ October 2, 2015

Ask the Urban Dater: Is the Grass Really Greener?

My boyfriend's best friend just became single. He is embracing his new freedom by drinking, partying, & constantly talking smack about his ex. (who I think, she is completely reasonable in this whole situation) Now my boyfriend said every guy...

/ September 1, 2015
commitment phobes, online dating, how to deal with a commitmentphobe, dating advice, relationship advice,

THE CURIOUS CASE OF THE COMMITMENT PHOBE

What happened? Why hasn’t he called? Was he even interested? Did he die? While you lay awake perusing his old text messages and reminiscing about his quick pursuit, the Commitment Phobe was already mentally packing his bags just as he...

/ March 24, 2015
changing yourself after you break up, what's wrong with me, why doesn't he like me, why doesn't she like me, how to get my ex back, the urban dater, dating advice, relationship advice

Your Greatest Love Affair is with Yourself

My mother always warned me about never loving too hard. She would tell me to always remember my own name. You can love someone, but you can never love someone too fiercely…because what will happen when they leave the room?...

/ March 17, 2015

6 Tips to Make Her Valentine’s Day Perfect

Cards, a dozen roses, jewelry, chocolate, gourmet dinners–these are all things that men are generally told they need to shell out for their significant others on Valentine’s Day…but do women really expect that? A new survey, released by international online...

/ February 13, 2015