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3 Stylish Ways to Stand Out in Clubs

George Lazar on May 28, 2013
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A lot of guys go into clubs KNOWING they need to stand out. It’s a loud place and it’s hard to make yourself heard. Having a way to convey social status in clubs is mandatory if you want to increase the rate with which women respond to you.

Ok, so showing up with 2 gals by your arms or sitting in the middle of the VIP lounge is enough to attract attention. But what if you can’t pull this off?

There’s a simple way to stand out in any crowd (for now) and it is called style. Some refer to it as fashion but that’s not exactly the case.

There’s just one catch. In order to make it work, you need to do it right from the beginning. You have to be open-minded to new ideas before and not dismiss them just because your initial impression was not the right one.

That being said, let’s get started with the 5 style tricks that you can use right now to catch female attention in any club.

#1 Wear a patterned shirt in a light color. For instance, a white shirt with black microchecks or a light blue shirt with thin dark blue stripes. Screen Shot 2013-05-27 at 5.07.56 PM

The white is there because you need to stand out in the dark place all clubs are. The pattern is there to stand out from all the other guys who are wearing white shirts or t-shirts. The last thing you want is to look like every other guy.

To take things further, how about a pair of chinos? Khaki, blue, red or green will work, you just need to make them work with your shirt.

So let’s say you found a white shirt with thin green stripes. You can match that with a pair of dark green chinos, or you can wear it with dark gray pants, a black waistcoat and a light blue pocket square. We’re just playing with colors here, repeating them even though they have different levels of intensity (martial match).

dress-shirt-with-pocket-square-and-cufflinks#2 Wear at least 2 accessories

Anyone can throw a pendant or a bracelet but very few guys take it further and add a second one. There are two reasons for this. One of them is that they afraid of what people might think of them. Let me tell you right away that you’re going to a club and the more you stand out the better. In fact, since it’s dark inside, it will be harder to notice both your accessories so wearing 2 inside a club is like wearing one outside.

The second one is that they don’t know how to match them. That I can help you with. A few easy examples include wearing 2 bracelets of the same color, one on each hand (make sure they have different designs though),

A more complicated example implies a red pocket square and a pair of red cufflinks. Take a look:

#3 Wear a hat

Hats may not be appropriate indoors but a nice fedora will definitely make you noticeable in a sea of guys all dressed alike. Plus, they’ll add a few inches to your height instantly.

Screen Shot 2013-05-27 at 5.05.42 PMNow, granted, not everyone can wear them so the best way is to just try a few of them. I recommend you try on a few fedoras as they have the best looking shape and they fit most head shapes.

But you don’t want to stop here. You can try to match the hat to your outfit. For instance, if you have a black fedora, how about wearing a black waistcoat, black shoes or even a black shirt? You can take things even further and add a black leather bracelet. Or, if you’re lucky enough to find a fedora that has a side band of a different color than the rest of the hat, you can just match that with something as crazy as a pocket square. Up to you.

 

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George has been writing about style for almost 4 years. He’s always trying new outfits and color combinations which he then shares with his readers, not forgetting to explain in detail how one can pull off looking stylish without crossing the line.

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