Category: Asides

awkward conversation

A Funny Thing Happened at the Bar…

So this post isn't going to be terribly long. Instead it will be short and sweet… The complete opposite of who I am. I was out in LA, waiting to meet a friend for dinner and drinks. I show up...

/ February 5, 2013

Putting Things Away. A Goodbye Letter.

It's been some years since a good-bye letter has hit this sordid pages. But below is a random one I got from a dude. He didn't leave an email and a bogus non-sensical name… Hence ‘the Urban Dater' as the...

/ January 28, 2013

the Urban Dater in Review

Well, here we are. Two Thousand and Muther F*ckin' Thirteen. The Mayans got it wrong and now we have a whole new year to put things in perspective. Things have continued to go well here, at the Urban Dater and...

/ January 1, 2013

Merry Christmas from the Urban Dater

Hey kids! Whether you celebrate Christmas or not, I just wanted to give a shout out to everyone and wish everyone a safe and happy holiday season. At this point I reflect on how lucky I am. I've got just...

/ December 25, 2012
Sandy is a Bitch

Sandy Was a Big Ol’ Bitch and What to Do About It!

Hey everyone! I hope the majority of you had a great weekend. I know mine was especially busy. I know that for my former partner in blog, Miss Taylor Cast, along with my other friends in NYC and the surrounding...

/ November 5, 2012
virginity

A Gchat About Punching Someone’s V-Card

As it is most nights, I work. My business partner and marketing master mind, Chris, will hit me up about projects we're working on through out the night to see where things are at and to bounce ideas off of...

/ November 1, 2012
Selfish

Selfishness Shall Set You Free. A Love Story…

You don't know what you don't know. “Truer words…” is a phrase Mr. Jackie Summers likes to utter from time to time, when the time is right. So there I was, my buddy Alfonso and I. It was a cool...

/ November 3, 2011

Ask Us, Dammit!

Some time ago, Taylor and I put out a call to you, our readers to: “Ask Us” about your sordid relationships, sex details and all that stuff. Needless to say, you assholes really put us through our paces and asked...

/ October 22, 2011