Tag: friends with benefits

When Your Rebound Uses You

Say what?… When your rebound uses you. Let that sink in for a moment. I’ve been burning to write a piece about this. The reality is human nature can sure be incredibly fickle. And with fickleness, comes both the sharp...

/ October 2, 2018

3’s a Crowd: How to Play The Field

Have you ever thought of dating multiple men at once? Asking yourself how many? The answer is 3. And here’s why. Delfino writes an interesting article on XOJane.com about how to play the field. https://www.xojane.com/relationships/how-to-be-in-charge-of-your-heart-a-pair-and-a-spare-method She introduces the “Pair-and-a-spare-method,” which...

/ May 14, 2018

How to Avoid Attachments in a FWB Relationship

Friends With Benefits (FWB) is a casual sex relationship (with no serious commitment) between two friends. The whole purpose of an FWB is to satisfy partner's sexual urges. However, if not performed properly, it may lead to the unpleasant break-up...

/ March 17, 2016

Four Reasons Why No One Benefits from a Friendship with Benefits

Our hook-up culture today tells us that we have been sexually liberated. That millennials are the offspring to the sexual revolution generation. Hollywood shows us sexual freedom entails casual, non-committed, intimate encounters. This belief has created a popular trend of...

/ January 26, 2016
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Friends with Benefits…Without Intimacy?

There are times in an adults life where a friends with benefits situation could be useful. I don't believe the concept is bad. However, when did having friends with benefits mean that there is no tenderness or intimacy? A person...

/ December 19, 2014
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Friends With Benefits

I'm beginning to think we should have had a Fuck Buddy Themed week, or Friends With Benefits Week here, at the Urban Dater. Maybe we should do that! I think another survey is due to cover a themed week. Look...

/ May 5, 2011

The F*ck Buddy Quagmire.

Pardon the title of this post.  I suppose Friends With Benefits would have worked just as well.  Anyway, we'll move forward and call them FWBs for now.  Many, if not all, of you know what a Fuck Buddy or friends...

/ February 11, 2010