Tag: casual sex

A Woman is More Than a Mechanism

When I was a child, I was so lonely I would call the radio station to talk to the DJ. Sharon, or Dave, or whoever graced the airwaves, were always referencing their funny conversations and giving shoutouts to listeners who...

/ August 12, 2016

How to Avoid Attachments in a FWB Relationship

Friends With Benefits (FWB) is a casual sex relationship (with no serious commitment) between two friends. The whole purpose of an FWB is to satisfy partner's sexual urges. However, if not performed properly, it may lead to the unpleasant break-up...

/ March 17, 2016
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The Aftermath of a Long Distance Fling

I recently had the privilege and pain of experiencing a weekend fling. This is not to be confused with a one-night stand, of which I have had many in my lifetime. No, a fling carries with it all of the...

/ February 24, 2015
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Friends with Benefits…Without Intimacy?

There are times in an adults life where a friends with benefits situation could be useful. I don't believe the concept is bad. However, when did having friends with benefits mean that there is no tenderness or intimacy? A person...

/ December 19, 2014

Choking a First Date in Front of Yogurtland…

I don't know what's gotten into me this past month…Clearly I should stop dating. Clearly. But I won't. So what the hell? I don't know; I'm in a weird place. During the last couple of dates I've been on I've...

/ May 6, 2014
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When Finding Mr. Right: Should You Date a Lot or a Little?

So, you’re single and ready to mingle. You’re beginning to wonder if finding Mr. Right is going to happen…or actually starting to wonder who on Earth said there was even a Mr. Right out there! The dating scene can be...

/ April 29, 2014
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Are All Who Wander, Sexually, Lost?

Here's an interesting tweet that I saw retweeted and to make sure the context is correct, I've included the screenshot below.  Now, I gotta be honest with our readers here, I stepped in a bag of shit when I started...

/ July 14, 2012
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Take a Survey Defining FWBs and FBs

It's not often the Urban Dater grabs the attention of good-looking women seeking our help. I mean, they do, but they tend to reach out to Taylor and not me, due to my inherent “creeper vibe.” Which is why I...

/ May 2, 2011