3. Be spontaneous. The bedroom isn’t the only place where you can talk dirty. Leave him some flirty notes around the house. Send him some dirty text messages or naughty pics of yourself. Tell him that you have something reallllly nice to give him once the two of you are alone.
4. Whisper reassuring words into his ear. Sometimes whispering is better than moaning or screaming in pleasure. Whisper reassuring words into his ears. Simple phrases like “You are so amazing” or “That feels so good” can sound very erotic when whispered. It makes the experience seem that much more intimate.
5. Don’t be afraid to ask/tell him to do something for you. If you want him to use his fingers or mouth in a certain way, ask him to. If you feel uncomfortable in a certain position, tell him that you want to change it.