Are you interested in talking dirty to a man but don’t know where to start? If you use the right words and say them like you mean them, you can drive your guy wild. Unfortunately, it’s not easy to figure out which words to use. Further still, it’s not easy to say them with confidence.
That doesn’t mean you can’t learn! With the right knowledge and patience, you can become a pro at dirty talk.
Talking dirty to your man can be anything from giving him encouragement, using creative words, providing him with vivid images, etc. It’s perfectly natural to feel shy about it at first.
I was shy when I first started to talk dirty to many man. But now I’m glad I gave it a try! I never realized how erotic naughty words can be. My sex life is mind-blowing now! I no longer get nervous or feel embarrassed.
YOU can have mind-blowing sex too. You just need to start out slow. Don’t be afraid to ask him questions to find out what he likes and what he doesn’t like.
Here are some tips for talking dirty to a man.
1. Find out where he stands on the whole talking dirty issue. Most men appreciate a bit of dirty talk here and there. How far he will want you to go with it depends on his personality. If he’s shy or religious, some words might end up offending him rather than turning him on.
On the other hand, he might really love it if you use explicit language. Try to be open about the subject to see what kind of dirty talk he would like.
2. Work on the TONE of your voice. It’s not just the words you say that are important – it’s also HOW you say them. If you don’t sound very convincing, he might wonder whether you’re all that into it. At first, it’s all right to be a little nervous, but if in time, you should get used to it. Just open up and let go.