How to Turn a First Encounter into a Success
If you have always wondered how to grab the attention of a man, then look no further. Our handy guide will show you how to reel him in, and keep him interested!
Men can be notoriously fickle creatures, so if you want a guy to notice you, there are five things you could do well to remember. When you are meeting up with a client for the first time, it always starts with a look, and then the rest is up to you. To find out more, read on.
1. The Look
When making eye contact, try to convey some of your personality into that first glance. If you want to be seen as bubbly and approachable, then flash a bright smile at the object of your affections, followed by a fluttering of your eyelashes. If you are more the sultry temptress, then go for a smirk teamed with a long and lingering gaze. Mentally undress him with your eyes! It's surprisingly easy to get some of your own unique traits across in such a short period of time.
2. The Outfit
Now that you have his attention, his eyes will be all over you. A classy, elegant outfit that leaves something to the imagination is perfect for a smart city bar, while a t-shirt and skirt is perfect for a sojourn in the park. Let your unique style colour your look, but don't make it too quirky. You can never tell what men will and won't like. Heels are usually a good place to start though, as they accentuate your legs and take any outfit into the next league.
3. The Walk
As you walk over to meet your date, it's important to keep him interested. Marilyn Monroe had her famous wiggle, supermodels have their commanding struts. Let your confidence as a high-class escort show, and put one foot in front of the other with pride. Let your hips sway and stand up straight, no slouching or shuffling allowed!
4. The Body Language
When you and your client are finally standing face to face, he should be wrapped totally around your little finger if you have followed the above advice! Let him know just how pleased you are to be here with him by letting yourself relax slightly, letting him know that you aren't tense or thinking about running away. With the right body language, he won't be able to keep his eyes off of you at all. No crossed arms, yawning or lack of eye contact. Those definitely hint at a less than thrilled mood.
5. The Attitude
After enchanting him with your looks, it's time to wow him all over again with your personality. Be attentive, enthusiastic and smile. There's no better ice breaker than laughter, so don't be afraid to use a bit of humour. He'll see you as a girl that he can have a good time with in every sense of the word.
Now that you've done all of the above, your date should be putty in your hands. No matter whether this is a professional or personal encounter, knowing how to get a man to notice you will serve you well over many dates to come. Just don't try it out on everyone, you'll have too many admirers to keep track of!
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