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How to Get Your Ex Back in 5 Powerful Steps

Hadrien Toure on November 5, 2015
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Young couple on jetty reconciling after quarrelYou’ve been broken up with and you want to get back with your ex because you still have feelings for them. The only issue is that they want nothing to do with you! So how can you make your ex want to get back with you?

All you have to do is follow these five powerful steps that have been perfected over time by the
relationship experts from WithMyExAgain.com during the course of the more than 10,000 hours of one on one coaching sessions offered to individuals just like you all over the world!

Step 1: Understand where things went wrong!

People usually get broken up with for one of two reasons: either you neglected your ex and did not
provide them with the time, attention and affection that they needed; or you were simply too needy or clingy and thus became unattractive and disposable. You need to take a good look in the mirror and understand what went wrong in order to take concrete actions to prove to your ex that you are no longer that person that they believed could not make fulfill them or make them happy in the long run!

Step 2: Control your emotions and don’t hassle your ex!

A break up entails a need for space and separation. The worst thing that you can do after getting broken up with is to keep reaching out to your ex, to beg and plea for another chance. If you act this way, the only thing that you will end up happening is that you will put your ex on a pedestal and become even less appealing in their eyes! Every relationship is a power struggle and by deciding to breakup your ex basically took command of this power struggle. Don’t empower them even more or comfort them in their decision by acting recklessly and letting your emotions get the best of you.

Step 3: Focus on you to regain some self-esteem!

Most people think that getting back with an ex has everything to go with the way that the ex feels about them; but we know that it has everything to do with the way you feel about yourself. Usually people get broken with because they were unhappy deep inside; insecure and in fear of losing the one they loved. Getting broken up with was only a byproduct of your inner feelings, inner peace and sense of self. The truth is that if you are able to go through a process of personal development and start to feel better about who you are, to be more comfortable in your own skin; your ex will definitely find you more appealing and be attracted to you…like they were at the beginning of your relationship! So forget about your ex for a bit and focus on your own well-being in order to eventually get them back; once you’ll be more at peace with yourself!

Step 4: Surprise your ex!

Your ex thinks that they know you and that you are incapable of evolving into the person that they wish you could be; that’s why they’ve decided to break up. It’s your job now to change those pre-conceived ideas that they have of you; and the best way to do this is by surprising your ex in a positive way. You need to think about certain actions and changes that you can undertake right away that your ex thinks that you are incapable of doing! You must come out of your comfort zone and continuously force yourself to act in a way that you wouldn’t normally.

Step 5: Prove your change over time!

Your ex is going to see you coming from a mile away; they know you will do certain things to grab their attention and “just” to get back together. If you have really decided to evolve, time will work in your favor because you will be able to prove that you are serious about making strides to sustain those changes over time. It’s the only way for your ex to change how they feel about you and to once again become credible and appealing in their eyes. You want to hear the words “now that we’ve broken up you’ve finally decided to change” or “what couldn’t you have done this while we were together!” When you do, you’ll know you’re on the right track! The worst thing that could happen to your ex, is for you to suddenly become the one that they always wanted to be with, and for someone else to reap the rewards.

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We are a Team of Love Coaches who specialize in helping people get back with their ex. In business since 2007, we have helped more than 10,000 men and women bring back their ex into their lives by changing people’s bad habits and negative behaviors. Alex and Adrian follow a unique approach and philosophy to love and relationships, one that has proven to be successful worldwide, and tailored to the specificities of each individual. https://www.withmyexagain.com/

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