Category: Dating & Relationships

the Urban Dater often examines the intricacies of dating and relationships. Dating is hard enough and then relationships often cast another layer of difficulty into the mix. Hopefully, the stories our contributors share will help you in your own relationships or dating experiences.

Is It Bliss or Did You Settle?

Is it Bliss or Did You Settle? This question has perplexed me for a very long time. This weekend has brought it to the forefront of my mind, and that's why we are discussing it. Somehow this past weekend, before...

/ February 21, 2017

3 Questions To Ask Yourself After 3 Months of Dating

Dating a special someone new can make you feel like you're in a lucid dream. You feel desired, you can't stop smiling, and you can't control your subtle smugness when you tell your friends that you're hitched. When you’re at...

/ January 27, 2017

The End of Brangelina – Is it Wrong to Laugh at the Other Women’s Misery?

So just last week we saw the demise of yet another Hollywood couple, Brangelina. Divorce doesn't come as much of a shock these days. It seems that in actual fact we aren't all that interested in what went down between...

/ October 25, 2016

10 Life Lessons From Dating in My 20s.

Dating is difficult so as I stand at the cusp of turning thirty I thought why not engage in a little social experiment for the benefit of all twenty-something single girls venturing out into this dangerous dating world. Despite my fair...

/ September 30, 2016

5 Body Language Hacks To Make Women Melt At Your Feet

It's the silent assassin. The ninja that kills your chances with women without you even noticing. The main reason that women aren't into you, even though you’re well-dressed, well-groomed, funny, flirtatious and actually making the effort to approach them. Bad...

/ August 23, 2016

A Woman is More Than a Mechanism

When I was a child, I was so lonely I would call the radio station to talk to the DJ. Sharon, or Dave, or whoever graced the airwaves, were always referencing their funny conversations and giving shoutouts to listeners who...

/ August 12, 2016
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My Ex Made Me Sign A Relationship Contract

Now now, I can already see your horrified expression as you eagerly and curiously await to find out more. “He did what?” You may be exclaiming at the screen, and yes you read it right. My ex made me sign...

/ July 28, 2016
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Tagging A Relationship: A Must Or Unnecessary For Today’s Millenials

In today’s generation, millennials’ validation of relationship is through their social media accounts. More often than not, ‘if it is not on Facebook, it is NOT official.’ This behavior has been typical for a long time now since the birth...

/ July 26, 2016