Ask the Urban Dater: I Want My Girlfriend to Have Sex With Someone Else
Hi I'm 28 years old I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. We have a great sex life I do however fantasize about her and other men. I don't want to see her have sex with them, I...
Dating Along Party Lines: A Brutal Study of Politics and Dating
Binary Politics and Dating Suck — OH at Starbucks I've swiped profiles that read “swipe left if you voted for Trump.” Heck, I even saw one that said: “swipe right if you voted for Harambe.” Fucking Harambe, the poor gorilla gunned...
Modern Courtship is Destroying Everything
Science says: Dating is hard!!! (Surprising no one at all) Tell me if this sounds familiar: You go out with someone, and you have a lovely time; there's a connection, and you want to see where this rabbit hole leads....
Why You Should Date an Older Woman
I've never been one to go after women who are younger than me. The number doesn't bother me; the maturity level does have an impact, though. Usually then women I date are around my age and younger by a few...
I Believe…
I'm Alex and this is what I believe… I believe that you are what you eat. Therefore I am a pussy. I believe that the sub-mariner stylings of Dan Quisenberry were brilliantly weird. I believe that people know within a few seconds...
What if I Die Alone?
Unless your end comes in the form of being with a lot of living people who all suddenly die at the same time, or within several hours of your death, you are going to die alone. Let's get that out...
A Little Q and A
Breakups happen at the intersection of choice and consequence Six days ago, at an intersection, we walked different directions. You went your way, and I went mine. I can't commit to you the way you want me to, and I...
101 Things I Learned About Online Dating: Learning to Let Go
I wrote this back in December 2015. I never bothered to publish it until today. When we find a good thing we want it; when we meet someone with whom we have chemistry, we want to explore it further. Ultimately,...