All posts by Dr. Mike Tremba

About Dr. Mike Tremba Dr Mike is a writer, publisher, and of course, past (pre-marriage) dater. He can usually be found on the great beaches of Southern Alabama, or somewhere outside getting exercise. Through the failures he's had (as well as the successes), he loves sharing his tips on making life more enjoyable.

How To “Unfriend” The “Friendzone”

“You’re such a great friend.” Harsher words were never spoken when coming from the mouth of someone you love. Or someone you think you could love. Or someone you just consider as a potential date. The Friend Zone. We’ve all...

/ September 16, 2013

Play Dirty: The Importance of Roughhousing in a Relationship

Think back to your schoolyard days: when you liked a girl, what did you do? Did you saunter up to her, throw out a witty one-liner, seeped in innuendo, and slyly ask for her number? Of course not. You pulled...

/ August 18, 2013
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Three Love Lessons From The Movies

Who doesn’t want a big-screen romance? The kind that Ryan Gosling and Eva Mendes could star in, that becomes a date night standby for new couples and a breakup cry movie for girls everywhere; sounds magical, doesn’t it? Of course,...

/ August 11, 2013

How to be “That Girl” All The Guys Want

You probably have a coworker, friend, or classmate who you envy—she’s gorgeous, classy, funny, and attracts guys like a Venus flytrap pulling in flies. It’s time to stop envying her and start being her. Face it: you’re not in high...

/ August 7, 2013
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Bad Breakup? Get Back on Your Feet—Here’s How

No one likes getting broken up with. In fact, most people hate it. Even if you and your partner split on congenial terms—he’s moving away for school, you’re too busy with work for a relationship, you both just see that...

/ August 4, 2013

Picture Perfect: Your Online Profile Needs

In the days of dating yore, what you saw was what you got. A cute girl at the grocery store? A stunning guy in line at the coffee shop? Once you mustered up the gumption to ask that attractive individual...

/ May 8, 2013

Observe Dinner Habits-Learn About Your Date

Dating is scary. Putting yourself on the table for someone to either pick up or pass on? That’s the kind of uncertainty that will make even the most stable stomach turn. But dating should be an exciting endeavor, and there...

/ April 29, 2013

Dating: Turn The Heat Up, Keep The Weight Off

After being off the market for months (maybe even years) you’re finally ready. You've revamped your wardrobe; vacuumed the cat hair off the couch; started smiling at strangers. You’re back on the market and ready to date. But after one, two, maybe...

/ April 23, 2013