When it’s Men vs. Women, Everybody Loses

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How many relationships have broken down because of the inability for men and women to see each other as people? “The minute I heard my first love story, I started looking for you, not knowing how blind that was.” Rumi. After 20 years we failed. I had expectations of what a man should be, his expectations was of someone who would stay. We dreamed of … [Read more...]

No Chemistry? Get Out of Your Own Way

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"We didn't click." “There weren't any sparks.” “We didn't have chemistry.” As a dating coach, I talk with my clients about chemistry a lot. Especially with my female clients. For many women, chemistry is a pretty black-and-white deal. They either have it with their dates or they don’t. And some say they know if it’s there before they've even ordered … [Read more...]

10 Ways to Spot a Commitment-phobic Man

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You have been seeing/dating this man for a while and there is just something about him that you feel uneasy about…You actually find yourself wanting something more out of your relationship – perhaps it’s an official relationship status, a proposal, a marriage or just wanting a bit more commitment from him on his end. “Is he a commitment phobe?” If this is … [Read more...]

A Visual Guide to Modern Romance

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So you’re young, single, and ready to get down in the big city. Whether you are meeting people online or at the pumpkin patch, you have probably found yourself in a number of situations that your mother would find quite alarming. This is a handy visual guide to help you navigate the strange, occasionally sweaty terrain that is your love life. While these … [Read more...]