4 Signs That Your Nice Guy is Actually an Asshole

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When it comes to dating, I’m a bit of a masochist. I would never admit to anyone that I like dating assholes, but somehow that’s what I’ve often ended up with. I seem to have an innate ability to repel decent guys while simultaneously bringing the biggest jerks into my intimate distance. I don’t do it on purpose. It’s an almost autonomic response, if such … [Read more...]

The Aftermath of a Long Distance Fling

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I recently had the privilege and pain of experiencing a weekend fling. This is not to be confused with a one-night stand, of which I have had many in my lifetime. No, a fling carries with it all of the underpinnings that tie together a real relationship but leaves you with only frayed ends when it's over. Here's how it starts: you meet someone. You're … [Read more...]

How to Talk to Attractive Strangers

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The butterflies...those twisted evil butterflies. It was those blasted butterflies in my stomach that stopped me getting what I wanted yet again! Sounds stupid, doesn’t it? But we’ve all been there. How many pretty girls have we let prance out of our lives forever because we were too nervous to say something? In the heat of the moment, we dream up … [Read more...]

6 Tips to Make Her Valentine’s Day Perfect

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Cards, a dozen roses, jewelry, chocolate, gourmet dinners--these are all things that men are generally told they need to shell out for their significant others on Valentine’s Day...but do women really expect that? A new survey, released by international online dating site AnastasiaDate, revealed some good information about Americans’ attitudes and … [Read more...]

Moving On From “Forever”

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When George Clooney met Amal Alamuddin, a big bang must have happened. This was the woman that he must’ve been waiting for amidst the string of beautiful women that he never seemed to ever truly commit to. Amal was probably unaware of his ill-fated quest while busy living her life somewhere else in the world. She was busy being intelligent and she was busy … [Read more...]