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4 Easy Ways to Heat Up your Sex Life

Emily George on May 14, 2013
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spice up sex lifeAt the age of 40 Jackie was 5 stones over-weight, at the time she was managing her own company, and raising two kids. Truly the only thing missing in life was sex. “I felt like my figure had become completely unappealing. I didn't want to become nude even with my husband,” she states. But it wasn't just the additional body weight that was making her become non-sexual: “I became consumed by all the things I was doing for people and had lost a feeling of my personal wonder and I needed that, to become passionate.” Sexuality is truly complex. It's not like a switch that your turn on or off. If you're exhausted after work or have minimal occasion to spend time for “me time” or you're unhappy with your body all these issues can reduce your reaction to sex.

Exhaustion can knock the libido, even women who had been good sleepers may start experiencing broken sleep patterns in midlife, as hormonal changes occur, evening sweats and early morning awakenings begin. A US National Sleep basis poll uncovered that 1 in 5 of individuals which aren't getting enough rest assert they're too tired for love making, in a survey in 2012, 60% wanted rest more than loving.

Psychological anxiety, the worldwide bane of multitasking individuals, doesn't help. Experts revealed in 2010 that the anxiety hormone cortisol can block the effects of testosterone so our busy, hot-bed lives can end up reducing our sexual desire. But simply while the needs of lifestyle weaken your craving for sex, the following lifestyle changes can improve your attachment with your sensual side:

Exercise
Not only will repeated cardiovascular exercise help your keep your body weight under control and cause you to become happier with the body in general, but it also gives you increased vigour, stamina and decreases stress, all important elements of a great sex life. Studies produced, show that those fitter amongst us tend to feel better about ourselves and enjoy more loving. Workout increases blood flow to the private areas, which often improves arousal. We don't need to be an athlete. Going for a fast stroll 3 times a week can help.

Choose a healthy diet
There's proof that eating loads of salad, fruit, veg, fish, and grains build sexual desire.

Discover how to de-stress
Since cortisol physically inhibits desire, it's vital to select methods to calm down, maybe take up yoga, socialise more with friends, or enjoy a hot tub after work.

Just enjoy it – you maybe surprised
Additionally, if you're not completely in the mood, research demonstrates that women's sexual reaction varies from men's, as they may not experience the spontaneous need to bond. But if you could relax and forget about the days stress and the “to do” list and simply start kissing and caressing your man, you'll possibly get warmed up. Females feel that if they don't appear as sexy as they did in late teens and early twenties, there must be something completely wrong. But in fact the move from impulsive sexual desire to a more responsive flow is actually completely normal.

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