Why I’m on JDate


I don’t want to say that I’m desperate. But I am. After a bad break-up, one in which my ex is already engaged with his new girlfriend (they announced it as a hashtag on her Instagram about a month after we broke-up. Yeah, I date real classy people), and the outside temperature has been below zero for the last two months, you’d be willing to do anything to … [Read more...]

3 Reasons Women Need to Write the First Email Online

Why women should send the first message

Many women sit and wait for men online to send the first email. Learn why this is a huge mistake... Countless women I have worked with over the years have taken a passive approach to online dating.  Rather than performing searches and attempting to attract the type of men that they deem worthwhile, they sit back and wait for the results to come … [Read more...]

Why Onlinedating Never Truly Works

Why Online Dating Sucks

If it seems as if everyone has tried online dating, you’re not alone. According to a study done by Pew Research Center, 11% of American adults—and 38% of those who are currently “single and looking” for a partner—have used online dating sites or mobile dating apps. The general public’s attitudes towards online dating have become much more positive in recent … [Read more...]

Why Staying in is the New Going Out

Staying in Date Night

During the dark days of the great recession, the typical household was too consumed with careful financial planning to enjoy themselves too energetically. This encouraged many to change the pace of their lifestyle, as they looked to enjoy time at home rather than traveling overseas and investing in hedonistic nights out. While the economy may have … [Read more...]

How Your Insecurity is Sabotaging Your Relationships


Whether or not your voice it, it doesn't seem to matter. What is the "it" in this case? Insecurity. No matter how much someone tells you that you matter; that you're important, it doesn't matter when insecurity has taken hold of you. Insecurity does its fair share to decimate many a relationship and sometimes it's hard to know when it's happening, to see … [Read more...]