Category: Online Dating

Online Dating is challenging. the Urban Dater shares stories from real people about their dating woes and successes. We often dive into great details about what makes for a great date and what makes for a bad date. Hopefully, these online dating stories help you along your own dating journey.

Keeping Yourself Safe Online

It was 2003. Online dating was taking off, but it was only for desperate singles. Chat rooms were an increasingly popular, and less obvious way of trying to connect with people. But the internet was, by and large, still a...

/ August 15, 2019

Anxiety and Modern Dating and How to Cope

Does dating make you anxious? If that's you just know that it's okay. You're not alone! Yeah, online dating is tough and yet almost half of Americans do the date thing, according to Pew Research. With so many Americans out...

/ August 6, 2019

The Ethics of Ghosting

P1: You’re still interested in a person and continue to communicate with them. P2: The other party is no longer communicating. P3: The other party is no longer interested. C: You just got ghosted Ghosting is an infamous, colloquial, and...

/ July 9, 2019

How to Land a DATE with a F-Boy

This is part sarcastic, part application, and part true; Take what resonates with you. Laugh about it or live it! They are crawling over Tinder. With 3 out of 4 their pics displaying their bed. Or gorgeous bod. Or eyes....

/ June 13, 2019

10 Fulfilling Things You Can Do, Single

If you don’t remember the last time you weren’t in a relationship, casually dating, or in an infatuation-ship, this list is for you. Raised in a world, where marriage and partnership is the norm, how is a singleton suppose to...

/ May 7, 2019

Can You Be in Love with Two People?

Longing. Pain. Desire. They are all tricky emotions. What you want and what you need. What is wrong and what is right. The Past and the Present. If you’re stuck between two people, could you truly be in love with...

/ April 20, 2019

I’m Not Ready for a Relationship (With You)

It is better to have loved than to not ever loved at all… BUT It is better to have escaped a doomed relationship than to have tried one after all. This is an open letter addressed to those who have...

/ April 1, 2019

Why You Should Date Outside Your Comfort Zone

Refresh, rebrand, and re-date! Forget your Type and unbundle all the possibilities of dating outside of your usual. Here’s what happens when you do. Provides More Opportunities When you toss the list, your options quadruple. Once you’re open to more...

/ February 26, 2019