Tag: Sex

Why I hate 50 Shades of Grey: An Account on S&M Abuse

I own a copy of 50 shades of Grey…but I've proudly never read it. I know the arguments and I know the synopsis. Woman meets tortured soul who gives her great, if not strange sex and she apparently “changes” him....

/ November 19, 2015

12 Things I Learned About Men By Having Sex With Them

When you read dating advice, it seems like men and women are different species who can only communicate through emotional manipulation. The PUAs teach men to get the girls by gaming them into submission. The Rules teach women to act...

/ October 13, 2015

How to Hook Up in Sweden, Beach Style.

I had first read about travel culture in Alex Garland’s The Beach, while still an impressionable, and free-spirited, albeit slightly psychotic teenager. They made a movie based on this book. In case you were born in the nineties and need...

/ August 6, 2015

The Impact of the Media on the “Adult Dating” Niche.

There are many factors that have contributed to an increase in people getting involved and signing up to a new stream of “Adult Dating” sites. Sites such as Marital Affair paved the way in the UK and US as early...

/ June 23, 2015
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THE CURIOUS CASE OF THE COMMITMENT PHOBE

What happened? Why hasn’t he called? Was he even interested? Did he die? While you lay awake perusing his old text messages and reminiscing about his quick pursuit, the Commitment Phobe was already mentally packing his bags just as he...

/ March 24, 2015
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The Truth About Dating a Cougar

The definition of a cougar is… Let’s throw out our definition of what a cougar is and be real. If you have ever thought about dating an older woman (and who hasn’t?), you’re probably familiar with the way the fantasy...

/ March 3, 2015
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What is the Difference Between BDSM and Abuse?

First of all, while I come not to praise Fifty Shades of Grey, neither do I come to bury it. The bashing and dissecting of its prose style and its depictions of D/s relationships have already been done, sometimes to...

/ February 27, 2015
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The Aftermath of a Long Distance Fling

I recently had the privilege and pain of experiencing a weekend fling. This is not to be confused with a one-night stand, of which I have had many in my lifetime. No, a fling carries with it all of the...

/ February 24, 2015