Tag: Sex
How to Hook Up in Sweden, Beach Style.
I had first read about travel culture in Alex Garland’s The Beach, while still an impressionable, and free-spirited, albeit slightly psychotic teenager. They made a movie based on this book. In case you were born in the nineties and need...
The Impact of the Media on the “Adult Dating” Niche.
There are many factors that have contributed to an increase in people getting involved and signing up to a new stream of “Adult Dating” sites. Sites such as Marital Affair paved the way in the UK and US as early...
THE CURIOUS CASE OF THE COMMITMENT PHOBE
What happened? Why hasn’t he called? Was he even interested? Did he die? While you lay awake perusing his old text messages and reminiscing about his quick pursuit, the Commitment Phobe was already mentally packing his bags just as he...
The Truth About Dating a Cougar
The definition of a cougar is… Let’s throw out our definition of what a cougar is and be real. If you have ever thought about dating an older woman (and who hasn’t?), you’re probably familiar with the way the fantasy...
What is the Difference Between BDSM and Abuse?
First of all, while I come not to praise Fifty Shades of Grey, neither do I come to bury it. The bashing and dissecting of its prose style and its depictions of D/s relationships have already been done, sometimes to...
The Aftermath of a Long Distance Fling
I recently had the privilege and pain of experiencing a weekend fling. This is not to be confused with a one-night stand, of which I have had many in my lifetime. No, a fling carries with it all of the...
6 Tips to Make Her Valentine’s Day Perfect
Cards, a dozen roses, jewelry, chocolate, gourmet dinners–these are all things that men are generally told they need to shell out for their significant others on Valentine’s Day…but do women really expect that? A new survey, released by international online...
Your Bullshit Shall Not Pass (and a Happy New Year!)
Happy New Year from the Urban Dater! Another year has gone by–oh boy! I can hardly believe it’s 2015. Holy shit, dudes. I hate to be the bearer of bad (and obvious) news, but we’re all getting older (my little...