Tag: Self

A Woman is More Than a Mechanism

When I was a child, I was so lonely I would call the radio station to talk to the DJ. Sharon, or Dave, or whoever graced the airwaves, were always referencing their funny conversations and giving shoutouts to listeners who...

/ August 12, 2016

Why Dating Is Hard

I’m a 54 year old, happily remarried woman to a great person who wasn't my ideal man, then became my perfectly flawed man. I have been where you are now, through my education and experience, I am sharing the truth...

/ June 13, 2013

The How—And Where!—Of Finding Your Soulmate

Meeting people isn't difficult. Meeting people you actually want to spend time with? That is. And when it comes to meeting people you’re interested in becoming romantically involved with? Forget about it. You may as well attempt a one-legged back flip into a pool...

/ April 11, 2013
flight attendant memoir

To Fight or to Take Flight

As soon as these items leave my possession I can be free. Well, maybe free isn’t the right word – okay, let’s say that I will be back to my own self. Self that I know and remember. You know,...

/ October 9, 2012

Love is a Battlefield.

Ok, maybe love isn’t really a battlefield, but it sometimes feels as though there’s a landmine field leading up to it! There are so many facets to attraction and then add in experiences and coping skills and there are a...

/ February 4, 2010

Just Say Something Already!

Rumor has it that I'm a man.  Some say the evidence is merely circumstantial… Okay, I can live with that.  Hmm, this article is already off to an odd start so I'm just going to keep writing and see what...

/ December 29, 2009

You Can't Always Get What You Want…

No, you're not the only one, kids.  We've all been there before.  The end of the road.  The glass ceiling.  We've all felt helpless and hopeless with regard to matters of the heart.  What I'm getting at is that there's...

/ December 11, 2009

Going Out to Meet a Gal When it Breaks My Rules… Part 2

As I mentioned before, I had decided to go out and meet this girl against my better judgment.  To her credit she did tell me that she planned on meeting up with friends and that some of them might be...

/ December 10, 2009