Tag: Relationships

How I Got My Sexy Back After Sexual Assault

Twenty years ago, in the back of an old Ford Bronco, I finally got my sexy back. Let me explain here since you're wondering how I lost it in the first place. As a survivor of child sexual abuse, sex...

/ April 25, 2017

10 Reasons Why Sex in Your Thirties is Better Than You Think

Sex in your thirties is like going to the dentist: before getting there, you worry about suffering… but when you come out you’re all giggles. Does anyone actually like getting older? There are things in life that can get really...

/ April 6, 2017

3 Questions To Ask Yourself After 3 Months of Dating

Dating a special someone new can make you feel like you're in a lucid dream. You feel desired, you can't stop smiling, and you can't control your subtle smugness when you tell your friends that you're hitched. When you’re at...

/ January 27, 2017
when relationships fail

When Relationships Fail

I’ve been dating for 34 years. No, scratch that, about 14, but it feels like 34 years. And I’ve learned a lot from it. And here’s what I’ve learned: That I’ve actually learned nothing at all. That’s right. I just...

/ October 20, 2016

Intimacy, tech and LGB relationships

If history means that you’ve had to keep your love or attraction secret, intimacy between two people has been difficult to come by. Sometimes even dangerous. Today, we live much freer and even have hookup apps like Grindr and, while...

/ August 30, 2016

A Woman is More Than a Mechanism

When I was a child, I was so lonely I would call the radio station to talk to the DJ. Sharon, or Dave, or whoever graced the airwaves, were always referencing their funny conversations and giving shoutouts to listeners who...

/ August 12, 2016
relationship contract

My Ex Made Me Sign A Relationship Contract

Now now, I can already see your horrified expression as you eagerly and curiously await to find out more. “He did what?” You may be exclaiming at the screen, and yes you read it right. My ex made me sign...

/ July 28, 2016
accepting love

6 Ways to Attract the Love You Deserve Into Your Life

It really is no secret that relationships are hard work and that finding ‘real love’ is a bit of a journey that often involves bad dates, heartache, cringe-worthy moments and a few frogs along the way! Searching for love is...

/ April 28, 2016