Tag: break up

Reflections: When the ‘ex’ becomes the ‘hex’

It's never easy when a relationship ends; how it ends is even harder than the break-up itself. And although you both pledge to “stay friends”, contact between the two of you dries up until the only acknowledgement you make to...

/ April 28, 2013

Putting Things Away. A Goodbye Letter.

It's been some years since a good-bye letter has hit this sordid pages. But below is a random one I got from a dude. He didn't leave an email and a bogus non-sensical name… Hence ‘the Urban Dater' as the...

/ January 28, 2013

Break Up Advice for Your Booty

Your Best Break Up Badonkadonk In the wake of a bad breakup, it is always helpful to direct all those feelings of rage and abandonment into something constructive. For many people, “constructive activities” means yard work. Others choose to throw...

/ July 25, 2012

The Kid Conundrum

A good friend of mine, F. Slocombe, & I met because of the Urban Dater. We have a lot in common in our views on dating & marriage & babies. Oh babies, the dreaded issue, an issue he & I...

/ April 5, 2011

Loss

“When we think of loss, we think of the loss through death of people we love. But loss is a far more encompassing theme in our life. For we lose not only through death, but also by leaving and being...

/ December 13, 2010