How Dating Changes in the Next Ten Years

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We live in a crazy day and age that is defined by a fast pace and an uncontrollable change that has reached every area of our daily life. One area that has already changed a lot over the last couple of years is dating. I recently had a conversation with my father who told me about the time he met my mum. There was no Facebook, no text messages, no … [Read more...]

How to Start Off the New Year with The Love of Your Life

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“Mom, Dad, I need to you do me a favor. I need you to start living as if I’m never going to get married. I need you to stop thinking about me having kids, okay? I’d rather be single forever than marry someone just to get married. I’d rather be single my whole life than settling for someone just so I’m not alone.” I grew up in a pretty conservative family. … [Read more...]

How to Date Multiple People

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Some individuals will dependably let you know that when you're single you ought to be going out on the town with an alternate date every night of the week! This may be extreme, however the thinking behind the announcement is sound: don't rely on that one date you have a week being the ideal one. You have to get out there and continue attempting. That is the … [Read more...]

How Do You Know When You’re in Love?

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How do you know when you’re in love? I always thought it was a matter of “when," like it could be so easily defined by a year or two years or at least three for what you feel to be real in any way. I force myself to swallow down something condescending like “Maybe you don’t know what you feel so you call it love,” when a friend tells me that three months … [Read more...]

Warning: Small Penis Ahead

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I adore Coach bags. I was drooling over a new satchel bag online and decided to go to the Coach store to view it in person. When I arrived at the store to purchase it, imagine my surprise that the bag was called a mini! It was half the size of a regular bag. I realized that a mini wouldn't do; I need a full size bag. I meet an attractive guy and the … [Read more...]