Confessions of a “Church Girl”

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“So you’re a church girl,” he said. I laughed to myself. Here we go. “No, I’m Christian who happens to be a woman,” I said. I’m a preacher’s daughter and grew up in church all of my life. Now I’m fully aware of the stereotype and misconceptions that come with being the “church girl.” Let me see if I get this right. We’re freaks. We say we go to … [Read more...]

How to Make a Woman Chase You – 4 Simple steps

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It may be traditional for the man to make the first move, but getting a girl to chase remains an essential step in any courtship. Women love the thrill of the chase just as much as men. This is especially true with the most beautiful women, who have an array of dating options handed to them on a platter. They won’t admit it, but these women want a man … [Read more...]

Breezing your way through a first date

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Once upon a time I went on dates. I’ve always struggled with word date. It sounds so formal, and formality and I don’t mix. Let’s just go with - once upon a time I went for dinner with men who made me laugh, were vaguely attractive and were willing to pick up the bill. One of these vaguely attractive men was a work colleague and, despite all the … [Read more...]

How to be the Coolest Guy at the Nightclub

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The nightclub is a strange place when it comes to social value. Once you step inside, traditional rules of social status are stuffed in the most superficial cocktail shaker, spun around and spilled completely upside down. Sexy people now top the social pyramid. Stick-thin models are placed on a pedestal above entrepreneurs, paramedics and computer … [Read more...]