Okcupid Advice

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Okcupid is, as you know, my preferred dating site of choice. It's easy, there's a lot of folks on it and it's free. They do a great job of providing filters and meaningful ways of getting people to give a deeper understanding of who they are. On Questions... Answer questions; lots of them. When you first sign up, take 30 minutes and answer these questions … [Read more...]

The Day We Stopped Being “Friends”

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I'm not sure when it happened. Was it Tuesday? Maybe a week ago, or a random Sunday morning, as you curled up on the couch, with your laptop. Whatever the day, you made a conscious effort to remove me as a "friend" on Facebook... This whole non FB friend thing isn't news. I wrote you to congratulate you; I wrote you as if it was the "normal" thing to do. … [Read more...]

Stemmy’s Romantic Tweets

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So the Urban Dater has a Twitter Follower, @stemmy55. He's among our most cherished followers, too. I fell that over the last year or so I've really been able to connect with him and what motivates him... https://twitter.com/stemmy55/status/400287045836214273 and https://twitter.com/stemmy55/status/400649235189600256 More than that, Stemmy has … [Read more...]