Vote for the Urban Dater for a Kick Ass Blog Award Thingy!

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We're not quite sure how it happened, but your kids at the Urban Dater are up for an award. Not just some random award but a Bad Ass Blog award, from the Bloggessess over at the Indie Chicks. We love them and what they do; so you can imagine just how shocked we were to get a nod. So would you all be so kind as to help us out on this one? We need your … [Read more...]

How to Talk Dirty to Your Man

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I've talked about talking dirty and how to go about it in the past. I haven't really covered how guys like dirty talk, too. It's not all that surprising. Men and women are, after all, sexual beings. The one thing I think a lot of folks, or at least some of the fellas I know, seem to think that dirty talk is a specific-use-case weapon, purely … [Read more...]

We’re Live Tweeting 50 Shades of Grey… Drunk! Aw Yisss!

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Our fearless Managing Editor, Betty Mars, is Live Tweeting #50ShadesOfGrey right this very moment! Hopefully theater staff don't make moves to shut her down and let's also hope that no lady-boners are harmed during the live tweeting of this film! So join in the fun! Twitter Stream #50shadesofgrey Tweets … [Read more...]

Ask the Urban Dater: The Job Seduction Edition

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New Year and a new Ask the Urban Dater! Today's question comes from Hakuta Bronson, a quick-oil changing technician at Spiffy Lube. Hakuta asks: My question is if a guy meets you then later keep his distant...what is he doing? Is he analyzing what he wants? I fear this because once the guy needs time to think...it usually goes down hill. Here goes … [Read more...]

My First Threesome

My FIrst Threesome

It was almost 10pm. I was in my skivvies, watching something on Netflix, eating pickles from a jar and scratching my crotch. I know, it's hot. Right? I get a call. It's from a gal that I'm seeing, Julie. She asks me what I'm up to, I tell her that I'm just working on some projects, trying to solve the world's problems and generally being a badass. She cuts … [Read more...]