Category: For Women

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The Girl Fight

not too long ago, i was embroiled in an emotional entanglement with a no good person who made it past my filters during a vulnerable time. i won’t pretend it was all his fault: i let him in. once he...

/ July 26, 2015

Date Deferred

Recently, I was at a bar and I realized, People are looking TO GET WITH ME. Most of my life I’ve felt downtrodden (by no particular source), but the general feeling of not-skinny/built/groomed enough next to the sleek and braided...

/ June 16, 2015

The End of an Era

I'm feeling like the Mad Men Posters as I sit alone in my apartment drinking my third juice of the day. I am a juice monster at the end of the world. I sat under a sign which read “Columbia Commencement...

/ June 2, 2015

5 Important Lessons I Learned From My Worst Date Ever

Rushing from the cab into the inner city bar we’d arranged to meet at, I quietly cursed myself for not having planned ahead more and arrived on time. My tights had snagged, my door keys snuggled out of sight between...

/ May 23, 2015

7 Reasons to Dump the ‘Bad Boy’ Boyfriend

Why you’re Wasting Your Time with Him The appeal of a bad boy is pretty universal, but you'll only ever get so far with him before it all goes wrong. It's no secret that us ladies love a bad boy...

/ April 20, 2015
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How to Get Over Breakup Blues

Many of us have suffered a breakup at least once when we were in our teens. Falling in love is the easiest thing to do when one is young and carefree. It is also fashionable to be in a relationship,...

/ March 19, 2015

4 Signs That Your Nice Guy is Actually an Asshole

When it comes to dating, I’m a bit of a masochist. I would never admit to anyone that I like dating assholes, but somehow that’s what I’ve often ended up with. I seem to have an innate ability to repel...

/ February 26, 2015

How to Talk Dirty to Your Man

I've talked about talking dirty and how to go about it in the past. I haven't really covered how guys like dirty talk, too. It's not all that surprising. Men and women are, after all, sexual beings. The one thing...

/ February 25, 2015