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Chris Hall lives in the distant hills of Berkeley, California, where he writes about sex, politics, atheism, pop culture, and whatever else comes into his head. You can follow him on Twitter as @LiteratePervert or read his occasional writings at his blog, Literate Perversions. He is firmly in denial about middle age, so please don't bring it up at parties.

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What is the Difference Between BDSM and Abuse?

First of all, while I come not to praise Fifty Shades of Grey, neither do I come to bury it. The bashing and dissecting of its prose style and its depictions of D/s relationships have already been done, sometimes to...

/ February 27, 2015