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…are all beautiful to someone. Yes, really.

words to say to get your ex back

Instead, why don’t you listen to some solid breakup tunes, call a friend, get a good cry in, go for a run, and call it a day? If your ex doesn’t want to be with you, there are no words that will change that.

What’s more: You don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t want you, or someone you have to strongarm into being with you. Would you ever feel secure in their affection if that worked? Probably not. Take that energy you’re using to try and find those words, and focus it on you–on what you need, on what you love, on who you want to be.

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Do not FEELINGSMAIL your crush, because dear god, that is a good way to look a little batty.

what does it means when a guy gives you his phone number

Probably that he wants you to call him–or in this day and age, text him.

why does a guy i dated still want to keep in contact with me

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You’ll have to put your big kid panties on and ask. Some signs, though: Does he talk to you like a friend? Does he revolve the conversation entirely around sex, but is otherwise unavailable? If he’s not treating you like he would a friend, then he’s probably hoping that you’ll be willing to bang him again at his convenience. If he’s just being a cool dude, maybe he’s just a cool dude and enjoys your company, even if the romance didn’t work out.

how to attract pretty woman

All women are pretty.

As for attracting other people, the best thing you can do for yourself is have some decent hygiene and make yourself compelling. How to make yourself compelling? Have hobbies. Have passions. Be financially stable. Practice socializing. Be kind. Be funny. Be humble. Be smart. Be confident.

That’s a start, at least.

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I cannot help you.

how to make a girl reply to me?

We get a lot of different variations of this. Bad news: You can’t make anyone reply to you. Good news: If someone doesn’t reply, they’ve given you enough information. It means it’s time to move on.

do guys think about their ex

I guess it depends on the guy and depends on the relationship he had with his ex. I think it’s a pretty safe bet, though, that most of us think about our exes from time to time, particularly those that we deeply loved and shared our lives with (even if it was brief). No one walks away from an ended relationship unscathed (and if they are claiming to, you do as I say and you tell them that you know that they’re a DIRTY LIAR), and even the hardest heart will remember those they’ve cared for from time to time.

turning friends into a relationship

“Hey, I know we’re friends, and I don’t want to fuck that up, but I like you and was hoping we could try out this dating thing. What do you think?”

IF YES: Proceed with caution. Have fun. Communicate. A lot.

IF NO: Be cool. Don’t pine. Don’t whine. If you need some space to heal and get over it, then do that. Don’t be a weirdo.

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